After having the baby he so desperately wanted (home birth), the placenta wouldn’t come out so I had to go to the hospital so they could pull it out. A fully dangerous situation. Well, they got it out and kept me and the baby for monitoring and he thought that was the perfect time to leave me and the baby in the hospital so he could drive 4hrs to NC and finish pledging with a fraternity. Mind you he was pushing 40 at the time. That was the beginning of my understanding of how men can pretend.