If you are a woman you will probably relate to 1 or all 5 of these things. Many times we see the red flags right in front of us but choose to ignore them in hopes that we are wrong.
1. FAKING AN ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP
Men will fake an entire relationship just to enjoy the benefits he gets by being with her. He knows he is not in love and she is not the woman he sees himself with in the future but that won't stop him from leading you on and enjoying the benefits you provide for the meantime.
2. MAKING PROMISES HE CAN'T KEEP
Men will promise a woman the moon and the stars if it means she will give him some. Many women can relate to having been with a man who came of as the right man just to find out he was an assh*le. He promised to never hurt her but ended up hurting her the same if not more. Ladies pay close attention to the things he does and not so much his words, it will tell you a lot about the position you hold in his life.
3. MAKING HER FEEL LIKE SHE IS WRONG WHEN WE KNOW SHE IS RIGHT.
We hate being wrong but hate to admit it. So when she talks to us about it we immediately get defensive instead of hearing her out and admitting our faults. We let our egos do the talking and instead of allowing her to express how she feels we make her feel wrong for it. A man who gets too defensive is because he knows he is wrong and got caught being wrong but can't admit it to you.
4. SAYING "I LOVE YOU" KNOWING IT'S NOT TRUE.
Men are notorious for saying i love you while sexing a woman but once that nut is out we forget that we love her. Saying "i love you" shouldn't be limited to just the bedroom. It would be a lot more meaningful to her if those words are said to her randomly during the day.
5. KNOWING IT WOULD HURT HER AND STILL CHOOSING TO DO IT.
We are aware of the things we do. Contrary to popular belief we are not stupid. We know certain things that would hurt our woman but still choose to do it. Most of the times if not all of the time we will repeat the behavior if we see that a few "im sorrys" got us out of trouble. Never allow a man to disrespect you or allow him to keep disrespecting you. So many years of wasted energy and tears can be avoided if you learn how to dismiss any man that doesn't come correct.
