Lately you have been questioning yourself and wondering if you're really crazy because your boyfriend makes you feel that way. All the arguments you guys have had have been for reasons he's given you yet he makes you feel guilty for arguing for a change. I don't fault any woman for being "crazy" about her man. I suppose I just see it differently, if she's constantly checking you, challenging you, holding you accountable, etc...then she's not crazy at all, she's passionate about the man she loves and only wants you to be the best you can be for her. If any of that becomes a problem for you then as the man it is your actions against her that cause the issues. You can't blame her for reacting and then call her crazy for it. Here are six things men do to make you feel like you're the crazy one:
1. HE CALLS YOU EMOTIONAL
A good woman loves hard. She doesn't know any other way to love. So when she gets a little "emotional" as you like to call it, try to understand, it's not because she's holding back...it's because she's giving you everything she's got.
2. MAKES FUN OF YOU IN FRONT OF FRIENDS/FAMILY
He'll tell stories of different times you guys got into it and even if it was serious to you he'll turn it around and make it seem like you're crazy for the way you reacted, and now you're questioning yourself whether you did overreact or not, but you didn't. You felt a certain way and he should have respected that, not dismiss it and now turn it into a joke.
3. HE CONSTANTLY LIES
You have caught him in too many lies and whenever you question him he turns it around and blames you for not being honest. He knows what he's doing, men are not stupid. They just like to play the stupid role when they have no real legit reason to cover up their lies.
4. HE MAKES YOU DOUBT YOURSELF
Whenever you catch him in a lie and repeat what he said to you he tells you to stop putting words in his mouth. He'll make it seem like he never said the things he said and now you start to doubt yourself and left wondering if you probably misheard what he said. The truth behind this manipulation is to get you to not trust your judgement. This is a form of emotional abuse where you get to the point where you just stop trying because you don't trust yourself and think you really imagining or hearing things wrong.
5. HE SAYS THINGS TO HURT YOU
Every time you catch him in an ambiguous situation in which he has some explaining to do, he will find a way to find something that happened to you that is somehow connected to the topic. After that, you will be left with that thought he shoved up your face, feeling messed up on all kinds of different levels. You will totally forget about what you wanted to ask him.
