They insult, belittle, and criticize you. Pushing your boundaries until you finally speak up. Then they use your reactions to make you seem crazy. Within weeks, they can turn an easy going person into a hot mess of insecurities and self-doubt. Many sociopaths wreak havoc in a convert way, so that their underlying condition remains hidden for years. They can possess a superficial charm, and this diverts attention from disturbing aspects of their nature. Here are seven signs to help you spot a sociopath:
1. NEVER APOLOGIZES
A sociopath will never apologize. They don't ever take responsibility for their wrong doing. They rather shift all the blame on you rather than apologize. Sociopaths never accept blame for anything they do wrong. They deny obvious facts and accuse their victims of wrongdoing. A sociopath will always accuse you of what they are guilty of themselves.
2. DECEITFUL
Sociopaths have lifelong patterns of deceitfulness for personal gain. They lack remorse and empathy and are wizards at rationalizing away how they hurt and mistreat others.
3. MIND GAMES
The goals of a sociopath are to keep you quiet, play mind games to wear you out mentally. Deprive you of happiness, project pain onto you, make you cry, make you apologize and attempt to steal any life from you. Sociopaths are jealous, envious, soulless, angry, abusive, and distorted liars.
4. TWO FACE
A sociopath wears a mask of sanity. It is easier for them to make you out to be crazy than it is for you to expose the reality of who they are.
5. SELFISH
They like to accuse their victims of being selfish. This is often done when their victim does something good for themselves and the sociopath wants to ruin their moment of enjoyment. It is a calculated effort to keep you exhausted, anxious and confused. A victim who practices self love is a threat to a sociopath because the victim might gain enough strength to set boundaries and cut them out of their life.
6. SUPERFICIAL CHARM
A sociopath will appear to be very charming on the surface in order to manipulate trust, but in reality they are manipulative parasites. Once they've gained your trust they will start to show their true colors.
7. PATHOLOGICAL LIARS.
A sociopath will tell you everything you want to hear to groom you into the person that they want you to be. A sociopath is skillfully deceptive and very convincing. Ultimate master of deception. They always have excuses for their inexcusable behavior and somehow it is never their fault. They cheat manipulate and steal but they still play the victim. They lie about everything. You can't take anything they say at face value. You don't know what's real and what's not.
