My husband got into a car accident in 2006 and hasn't been the same since. He has ignored every advance of intimacy and has not made love to me since. I can only go for so long being ignored. Oh, the cameras in the house have shown he is more than capable of performing, but he claims he can't. Is it me? I make him his tea every morning, bring him anything he wants, make him dinner, but as far as intimacy, he's been a no-show. AITA for wanting more?
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No human is an AH for wanting intimacy, sexual or not. This is one of those things that can only be resolved through clear communication and empathy. It's possible they have just fallen into a rut and have trouble getting back into things and it's also possible they aren't as attracted to you as they once were. Relationships can be very dynamic things that swing back and forth as life goes on so it's possible you two can address it but it has to start with honest communication about what the real problem is.
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