“AITA For Telling My Fiance I’m Locking Myself In The Room For The Rest Of The Vacation Because I’m Tired Of Holding His Sister’s Kid?”

It would probably be safe to assume that not many people enjoy babysitting. It is work that requires a great deal of patience and focus so that the baby stays safe as well as entertained. In short, babysitting isn’t easy, and if you don’t enjoy it, it’s even tougher. Especially if you’re on holiday, probably the last thing you are going to want to do is spend all your time and attention on a toddler. Also, if you have children of your own already, babysitting somebody else’s kids is probably pretty difficult too, considering you spend a lot of time babysitting already. As you can probably tell, this story is going to be about exactly that—babysitting, but with a rather curious twist. The Reddit post from which this story originates quickly gathered 15.7k upvotes and prompted 1.9k comments. Scroll down to find out more and consider leaving a comment!

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As the text above implies, this story is about babysitting, at least on the surface. Slight family drama and inconsiderateness of the person in question are there too. Also, if you ever thought of babysitting of your own free will, what follows might change your mind about that.

The original poster on the Reddit subforum embarked on a road trip with her fiance's family and it went quite poorly from the get-go. They were "trapped" in the car for the duration of the journey, having to listen to a baby that wouldn't stop crying and endure the odor of dog poop. Such a journey would be a challenge to pretty much anyone, so it is no wonder why, for the rest of the story, the OP was rather on edge.

Once the actual holiday started, the Original Poster got suddenly turned into a babysitter. Although the necessity of the woman's reaction you'll see later on is questionable, most people in her situation would probably get quite frustrated. And that is completely understandable—you go through a living hell of a car ride, which wears you out, and then you are pretty much forced to take care of a baby that isn't even your own. The woman who posted her story, as she mentioned earlier, actually has children herself so it is extra unfair to give her this responsibility when she should be resting.

The original poster eventually snapped after all the mandated babysitting and locked herself in her hotel room to avoid another round of that. It could easily be said that the woman didn't ever say no to the babysitting, but here she does mention that there were no requests for her help as the baby was practically "tossed" at her. So this situation begs the question whether saying no would've actually changed things for the better. There is a chance that the family would not be very pleased with her "rebellion". Furthermore, her fiance doesn't seem to stand in the OP's defense, which is also peculiar.

Overall, this is certainly a situation you wouldn't want to get yourself into. After all, holidays are for relaxing, not for taking over someone else's responsibilities. But it is true that the woman could've at least attempted to reason with the parents and say no. After all, the baby wasn't exactly her responsibility. In any case, now we know that running away from your problems sometimes somewhat works.