So I got the recommendation to re-write this post in my POV, so here we go.
I (14f) kind of gave my parents (43m and 40f) the cold shoulder. There were 2 events leading up to this. Firstly, I was excited that I finally graduated 8th so I was talking about how happy I was to graduate, but how scared I was to go into ninth. I don't know if I mentioned it one too many times, but my dad just blew me off at one point saying, "8th grade grad isn't such a big deal, stop talking about it so much." I then got mad at him so I gave him the silent treatment. He then grabbed onto my arm and he said he wouldn't let go until I told him I wasn't mad at him. In return, I yelled at him to stop being stupid and to drive with both hands. I acted cold towards my parents for the whole night because both of them invalidated my feelings on my 8th grade graduation. Later that night, my dad came into my room and was like, "This isn't something you should be this angry for, but I'm sorry if I hurt you." I don't know the apology felt cold and empty to me. Okay, now onto the second situation. My dad had to get some storage boxes to organize things at our house. It was crazy hot outside and I reminded him to turn on the A.C multiple times. I know he didn't keep it off intentionally, my dad would never do that. I was sweating, irritated, and in a bad mood. So I sarcastically/slightly angrily said, "Omg it's literally illegal to keep animals in the car without the A.C on, and your leaving human beings in here like this." He got mad at me saying I was being disrespectful over the past few days. (Event #1) When I started crying, he said I didn't have the right to be sad, and that he should be the sad one because I was mean to him. My mom also agrees with him. I genuinely didn't think I was that mean, and I really don't know if I've been TA. So I would really love a second opinion, thank you for reading all of this.
