“Life has a funny way of sneaking up on you.” If you’re familiar with Alanis Morissette’s 1996 smash hit Ironic, you likely know this as one of the lines in the outro. She sings these words as the song fades out, serving as a very poignant closer.
Indeed, life’s sudden plot twist can feel like fate playing a trick on us. Sometimes, it brings a pleasant surprise. Other times, it can be like a sneaky left hook from out of nowhere that leaves you feeling the sting for a while.
These people would know, as they shared their stories in a recent Threads post. Feel free to join in on the conversation in the comments below.
#1

Realizing my parents didn’t actually need me to house or dog sit, they were just trying to get me away from my toxic ex 🥺
58points
#2

Finding out that I had stage for abdominal cancer and that the surgery was so risky I only had a 50-50 chance of surviving that, let alone the cancer. I woke up from that surgery, and now it’s 40 years later. I have felt blessed every day since.
53points
#3

My wife getting leukemia when our twins were 2 and I was basically single dad for almost a year while my wife received chemo and a stem cell transplant in Houston(shout-out to MD Anderson!). 15 years later she’s alive and well!
53points
#4

Rescuing a puppy after telling my wife "it's a terrible idea," falling completely in love and having 17 years with the best friend I ever had. I lost him in September and I haven't been the same since
44points
#5

Being single and celibate is actually peaceful and delightful. Getting comfortable doing things alone is a flex 💪🏼
40points
#6

Finding out at 40 that i wasn’t bad at being a person. I was autistic.
37points
#7

At 47, inheriting the exact dollar amount that I thought it would take to adopt a child, and then adopting a daughter from a Russian orphanage (I was a single, first-time mom). Best thing that ever happened to me.
34points
#8

I went from felonies to full time custodial girl dad in half a decade.
Definitely didn’t see that coming. Feels like 5 me’s ago.
Definitely didn’t see that coming. Feels like 5 me’s ago.
33points
#9

Went to hospital with back pain late one evening.
Had a baby the next morning.
Had a baby the next morning.
30points
#10

A once thriving marriage failing after 21 years and six kids. As we came to utter the word “divorce”, I asked if maybe he wasn’t entirely straight. And in that moment, the pain, anger, and confusion of the past few years started healing rapidly. Everything made sense, finally. As we split, we became each other’s most trusted friend again. I’m so thankful. Not what either of us planned, but being his support person as he came out has been my biggest life’s honor.
30points
#11

My dad died and I found out that I have been a citizen of the UK since birth. 1.5 yrs later and I’ve been living in the UK for 1 month now.
29points
#12

Being hit by a an asphalt truck, which sent us head-first into another truck, is how I found out I had a 9cm tumor in my pelvis.
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29points
#13
I got diagnosed with leukemia in the middle of nursing school. About 6 months in to treatment my husband died waiting for a kidney while I was in the hospital getting chemo. My best friend died of an asthma attack less than 90 days from him we had her funeral on his birthday. But in the end I finished nursing school last month 🙂 and have been cancer free in remission for a year 🤷🏽♀️
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29points
#14

Changing careers, losing over 100lbs, diagnosed with trigeminal neuralgia, leaving an emotionally abusive relationship all with a year /two.
Then getting promoted, marrying my best friend and brain surgery x2 within a year.
I’m tired.
Then getting promoted, marrying my best friend and brain surgery x2 within a year.
I’m tired.
28points
#15

Came home from a Kentucky Derby party in another state to find the FBI raiding my house. Turns out my husband was a fugitive wanted for Medicare fraud and I was clueless. Guess where they found him? At his girlfriend’s house.
26points
#16
Learning that my nephews i help raise into young men regard me more as a dad than an uncle (my sister hasnt had the best luck with men til recently). Im childless, and wanted to show them the care and understanding i nevet got growing up from teachers, peers or family.
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25points
#17
I grew up as a “music kid.” I was singing on stage before I can remember. Have traveled the world for music. Went to college for music.
Fast forward a couple of years, I got married and had my first baby. He is deaf. Now my life is sign language and helping other parents navigate the world of raising deaf children.
Fast forward a couple of years, I got married and had my first baby. He is deaf. Now my life is sign language and helping other parents navigate the world of raising deaf children.
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23points
#18

Broke up with my bf on NYE 2012. Decided I was off men for the foreseeable future. 4 days later, my husband walked into the bar I was in.
22points
#19
In 1993 my granddad died, who I adored, my wife cheated on me and left, I was made redundant, I lost my flat, and had my first breakdown. That year changed everything, up until then I was doing mostly alright. You never know what’s around the corner.
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22points
#20

Probably both times that I found out that the parents raising me weren't my biological parents. I was not adopted.
My mom got pregnant on a break in a relationship, he decided to raise me as his own, she wasn't very mentally stable so they ended up running her out of state and my dad immediately married a woman who looked a lot like her so my 4 year old brain forgot and to this day, I only have memories of my bio mom after meeting her again as a teen. My bio dad didn't know I existed until I was like 12 and lived several states as well. It was a very complex deception.
My mom got pregnant on a break in a relationship, he decided to raise me as his own, she wasn't very mentally stable so they ended up running her out of state and my dad immediately married a woman who looked a lot like her so my 4 year old brain forgot and to this day, I only have memories of my bio mom after meeting her again as a teen. My bio dad didn't know I existed until I was like 12 and lived several states as well. It was a very complex deception.
21points


