Bonnie Blue's controversial baby shower has taken an unexpected turn after two guests shared new details about what truly happened behind the scenes.
Their accounts offered a closer look at the event, which had already generated headlines weeks earlier when the adult content creator revealed plans to combine a traditional baby shower with activities that left an interviewer visibly uncomfortable.
Highlights
- Adult content creators Tommy Lee and Owain Laing shared behind-the-scenes details about Bonnie Blue’s highly controversial baby shower.
- Guests were required to present their IDs, complete detailed consent forms, and provide up-to-date STI health test results before gaining entry to the event.
- The gathering lasted between five and six hours, blending standard party games like "diaper pong".
While much of the attention initially focused on Blue's public comments, attendees are now describing the atmosphere on the day, how the event was organized, and what took place off camera.
Bonnie Blue’s baby shower guests revealed the event was far more organized than many people expected
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Two attendees, adult creators Tommy Lee and Owain Laing, recently spoke to Us Weekly about their experience at the event.
According to Lee, the atmosphere throughout the day was positive despite the controversy.
“It was all high spirit,” he said. “Everyone was happy.”
Laing shared a similar view, describing the gathering as unusual but surprisingly structured.
“I really enjoyed it. I thought it was gonna be just absolutely f***ing bonkers,” he said. “But it was just very organized chaos, like it was really well organized down to the paperwork, down to everything.”
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According to Laing, guests had to complete consent forms and provide STI test results before attending.
“We need to see your ID. We need to obviously prove who you are,” he explained.
Laing estimated that more than 100 people attended the event.
When asked whether he would take part in another Blue event, he did not hesitate.
“Hell yeah, I get along well with her,” he said.
Lee also spoke about Blue's condition during the gathering, saying she appeared healthy and upbeat.
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“She was really, really good,” he said. “She seemed really healthy, happy.”
According to Lee, Blue told him she felt financially secure.
“She’s kind of got the mindset, she’s made a lot of money — a hell of a lot of money out of it. … She goes, ‘I’ve got enough money to kind of make up for the mistakes if anything happens.’”
The attendant revealed that Blue kept getting tired due to her pregnancy
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According to attendees, the event combined traditional baby shower elements with the controversial activities Blue has become infamous for.
Lee recalled several games organized for guests, including “diaper pong” and a challenge in which guests placed a napkin on a teddy bear while blindfolded.
At the same time, some attendees reportedly entered private rooms where intimate activities took place.
Blue had insisted that the event would include food, games, and more traditional baby shower activities alongside adult content.
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According to Lee, the gathering lasted between five and six hours.
“She kept getting tired because she’s pregnant,” he said.
“Just because she was very tired — people sleeping with her, that was very extremely limited to who slept with her. Then she’d get tired, so she needed a break, having snacks, and then she’d be ready to go.”
Lee also revealed that he was paid a “high amount” to attend the event, although he did not disclose a specific figure.
Bonnie Blue's baby shower plans previously left an interviewer visibly uncomfortable
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Before guests began sharing behind-the-scenes details, the event had already drawn criticism for how Blue described it publicly.
As reported by Bored Panda, the adult content creator told presenter Shelagh Fogarty during an appearance on Leading Britain’s Conversation that she wanted to turn her baby shower into what she described as a “go*den sh*wer.”
Blue said she intended to turn her baby shower into a different type of “shower” during the interview.
When Fogarty asked her to clarify what she meant, Blue replied, “It is exactly what you think it is.”
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The presenter immediately admitted that the conversation was making her uncomfortable.
Blue nevertheless insisted the event would go ahead because it was her decision.
“Again, my body, this is what I’m choosing,” she said.
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She also explained that she believed pregnancy was attractive to some people and wanted “to make the most” of the experience.
“It’ll be partly wholesome,” she said at the time, explaining that there would be food, games, and traditional baby shower activities alongside what she described as “other fluids.”
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