Planning a wedding can be both exciting as well as quite stressful, trying to make sure that both the couple and their guests can enjoy the celebration.
At least such was the issue in this Redditor’s family when she asked to have a sign interpreter at her brother’s wedding, yet the bride wanted to only have the couple on stage during the ceremony, sparking a discussion online.
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A woman asked to have a sign interpreter at her brother's wedding, sparking a discussion
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The groom's sister asked for a British Sign Language interpreter so that she, her husband, and their son could follow the vows
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The sister suggested either a professional interpreter or her oldest sister, who is fluent in British Sign Language
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Yet the bride refused as she wanted only the couple exchanging vows on stage
A woman brought her disagreement with her future sister-in-law to the Reddit AITA community online, asking if she was the jerk to ask for a British Sign Language interpreter during the wedding ceremony.
The woman explained that due to her deafness since she was 6 years old, and her husband and their 8-year-old son being deaf as well, she asked the soon-to-be-married couple to have an interpreter on stage so that they could follow the vows.
The groom's sister gave a few suggestions, which included either hiring an interpreter from outside the family or having her older sister as an interpreter, yet she was told no, as the bride wanted just her and the groom on stage.
The sister, on the other hand, found the option of the interpreter standing next to her inconvenient
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The groom told his sister he will see what he can do, while she shared she would most likely attend anyway; however, probably without her son
According to the World Health Organization, the effects of unaddressed hearing loss and deafness may include a loss of the ability to communicate with others, delayed language development in children, social isolation, and loneliness; it may affect a person’s academic performance, options for employment, and the global economy.
Finally, Forbes discussed improvements that can help to ensure communication is more accessible to people with deafness, and these included using text or visual information, such as live captioning, increased availability of interpreters in public places, and the use of positive communication strategies, such as facing the individual with hearing loss, ensuring good lighting in the room, and keeping objects away from one’s face when speaking.
Coming back to the original story, the woman’s post gathered 10.3k upvotes on Reddit and people judged she was not the jerk for asking to have an interpreter, yet some commenters suggested she could have accepted an interpreter standing next to her family and not next to the couple.
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