Relationships,FamilyAPR 22, 2026

Dad Who Cheated Demands Ex Wife Babysit His Six Kids From Affair Partner And Gets Rejected

Infidelity ruins lives. Worse, it’s a slow burn where the pain may go on for years since the cheating happened.

In this story’s case, the trauma had stayed with the person who experienced it since they were a seven-year-old child. As the author shared, their dad, who ended up marrying his affair partner, suddenly wants to be involved.

The individual didn’t want any relationship with their father, who tried to flip the script by playing the victim rather than apologizing.

The pain of infidelity can persist for years after the incident

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This person has not forgiven their dad for cheating when they were seven years old

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Instead of apologizing, the dad tried to flip the script

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Children are idealists, and it is why they withhold love from an unfaithful parent

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The author experienced their father’s infidelity at seven years old. It is an age when a child’s world is black-and-white, and when transgressions deserve proper punishment.

According to Adelphi University psychology professor Lawrence Josephs, it’s because children are idealists and become disillusioned with parental infidelity.

“It’s hard to respect or want to emulate a deceitful parent who has violated a marital vow,” Josephs wrote. “It’s hard to trust that parent going forward, because how do you know whether or not the unfaithful parent is currently being truthful and honest?”

Josephs added that children tend to punish their parents by withholding love and affection for an indeterminate period. It is more about seeing if they show remorse or make amends.

Then, there’s betrayal trauma, which, according to clinical psychologist Dr. Sabrina Romanoff, can also lead to more problems in adulthood, such as mental health issues like anxiety, depression, PTSD, and substance use.

“What makes betrayal trauma so painful is that the person who is betrayed often cannot simply sever their relationship with the perpetrator,” Dr. Romanoff said.

While the story’s author needs to find healthier coping mechanisms, perhaps even professional help, they have the right to disassociate from their father, who has not even shown an ounce of remorse. He even tried to shift the blame, which adds insult to injury.