
Bobbi Spence
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Bobbi Spence · upvoted 6 items
almost 4 years ago

And definitely don't insist your way is the only way and then go crying to random strangers on the internet for validation.

Will needs therapy, seriously. OP needs to give some thought to how involved she is willing to have him in her child's life, because it sounds like he badly wants a child, and is trying to use *her child* to meet that need. She needs to set some really clear boundries here "I know you love Will, and you think he got a raw deal, I also think he needs professional help to grieve his infertility and make peace with his decision not to become a father by other means. I am uncomfortable with how interested he is in my pregnancy and our child, it feels intrusive. I don't think naming our child will give him closure. I am worried that he is developing an unhealthy attachment to our child. I am unhappy, I feel like you are dismissing my concerns and putting Will's feelings above mine. I want to choose a name for our child that is ours, not Will's, and I need you to support me in setting boundries with him."

Bobbi Spence · commented on 8 posts
almost 4 years ago

“He wasn’t like this in the past….’. Yeah, he was….he’s showing you who he really is, whether his facade is slipping because he’s under stress over the wedding, pressure from his mother or thinking you are too deep in it to back out now,…believe what he’s showing you because THAT is who he really is, You deserve better.

Her mother had a key….I suspect the courts would consider that “consent to enter”. But, I support it being a hate crime, because it is.

Bobbi Spence · upvoted 11 items
about 4 years ago

Bobbi Spence · commented on 8 posts
about 4 years ago

Or you can just not answer the door….

When some idiot starts giving their not-so-expert opinion, just look then dead n the eye and ask “Did I ask your opinion?” Do NOT engage them…at all.

Bobbi Spence · submitted a post
about 4 years ago

Bobbi Spence · upvoted an item
over 5 years ago

I hate how you can’t comment on people down arrowed. Anyway, to the sexist guys who only seem to care about embryos not actual living babies “no uterus, no opinion”

Bobbi Spence · commented on 2 posts
almost 9 years ago

I’d file a sexual harassment and discrimination suit.

My best friend was black (she passed away) and she used to tell me that she couldn’t use just any soap because she had problems with “ashy” skin (not sure what she meant by that) and that some soaps would make it worse. So I get it when they say “for all skin types”.

Bobbi Spence · upvoted 2 items
about 9 years ago

Bobbi Spence · commented on a post
about 9 years ago

Unless he looks like Jason Mamoa.



