
Lily
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Lily · commented on 2 posts
about 2 months ago

That wasn’t a joke, that was a jab - a mean despicable jab. She thinks she’s more important and demeaned you in front of everyone. I’d never raise a finger to help her again. Never. She’s shown how she thinks about you - you’re hers, at her beck and call. F**k her.

Lily · commented on 4 posts
3 months ago

Her trying to be fair - NO. Since you got away safe enough you should still report the confronttaion, a threat and danger to your and your children's safety, and that you thwarted a theft by a spouse. No way would I just walk away and not do something about it. Write it all down, as much as you can remember so you have notes to recall in case she does report it.

I'm just going to say this - the kids know a lot more than you think. Talk to them when they are old enough, which is abour now. Don't try to protect them, that's more confusing when they know something is wrong. Kids may need your guidance, but they have minds that can read all kinds of behavior. They know. Talk to them.

Lily · upvoted 10 items
3 months ago

Lily · commented on 3 posts
3 months ago

He’s lied to protect himself. That won’t change, he’ll keep lying. He can’t be trusted, ever.

If he’s lied now, he will lie in the future. He can’t be trusted.

Lily · commented on 2 posts
4 months ago

Here's the thing - reality check - the fiancee will still have to navigate EVERYWHERE ELSE, even if there is a dance floor. That's not the issue and them making a bid d**n deal out of it is ridiculous - they are clearly not thinking.

A one-time occurrence can happen, but repeated extremely late behavior is potentially putting the children at risk. She has an obligation to meet when she puts someone in charge of her children. And ignoring calls for hours ad hours, and repeatedly, that's just unacceptable. I don't much like the "threat" aspect of this, I wouldn't have warned her, I would have just called the police if she had not responded to multiple messages.

Lily · upvoted an item
5 months ago

Lily · upvoted 8 items
5 months ago

Im a fan of this dog!

I laughed WAY too hard at this!

Lily · commented on a post
5 months ago

It is standard etiquette at weddings to feed "the help." Period. End of story. He was way out of line, and got exactly what he deserved. Would I have done that, probably not, but after all those hours, and I've done that kind of wedding myself, you can't be thinking real clearly. But I would have turned tail and told them, okay, since now I'm the photographer, you'll need to pay that rate.

Lily · commented on a post
7 months ago

Let me clarify something, she did not have to “uninvited” you. She wanted to but wanted your food. There was no reason whatsoever for the exclusion. None. You went way out of your way for decor and food and she expected you to drive all the way there AND back for nothing. This girl is a b***h beyond reason.

Lily · upvoted 6 items
7 months ago

LOL thats Egyptian Arabic dialect. "Nafs illiy maktoob bas bel3arabee" is what it says

That's a critic I would possibly write when I was working at The New York Times...

Lily · commented on 2 posts
7 months ago

I would have been madder than hell, and made sure she knew it. You DO NOT let a 5-year-old run amok and do whatever they want. Get a lock for your door and keep the room locked at all times.

Here's the thing, she's a narcissist - in her mind, it's her party. Unless you build boundaries like big walls, she will do whatever she wants without any regard for anyone else. I wouldn't cancel the party, but I would tell her that her invitees are not welcome and if they do show up they will be turned away, that there was a misunderstanding. And if you have to, tell her you will tell them that she invited them against your wishes. Put it all back on her.



