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UuwiiEmergency · upvoted 10 items

over 2 years ago

Hey Pandas, AITA For Being Wary Of An Old Friend Who Wants To See My Baby?
Hey Pandas, AITA For Being Wary Of An Old Friend Who Wants To See My Baby?

NTA. NTA NTA NTA and just in case you didn't get it, NTA. About 10 years ago I went through a load of trauma (on top of another decade of severe mental illness), I was in a new city, and on top of that due to said illnesses I never really picked up appropriate social skills growing up (I'm autistic so I've had to consciously study how not to make people uncomfortable etc. in conversation). I was hurting, lonely, and a MESS, and most people backed the heck up when they realised. And they were right to do so. At the time I was trauma-dumping and didn't have clear boundaries - it wasn't my fault, but it was way too much for people to deal with. You *don't have the resources* to help Lisa. That doesn't make you a bad person either. I can tell you for a fact that getting entangled with her won't bring about real positive changes for her, and she will turn into an emotional black hole for you. I ended up being helped by people who DID have the resources to handle all my issues and I'm a different person now. Your priority has to be yourself and your child - and Sandra should be on board with this, too. Good luck x

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UuwiiEmergency · commented on 4 posts

over 2 years ago

Hey Pandas, AITA For Being Wary Of An Old Friend Who Wants To See My Baby?
Hey Pandas, AITA For Being Wary Of An Old Friend Who Wants To See My Baby?

Then there was just words like she had tried to start several sentences at once so I didn’t understand what she was trying to say. Something about broken friendship was due to simultanously happening coincidences. She said she was hoping to get it all out and start fresh. Then she wished me lovely day and added an emoji that is considered the passive-agressive smiley face. I don’t know if she does or doesn’t know the nyans about this emoji but I didn’t care to find out and am not going to answer anymore.

Hey Pandas, AITA For Being Wary Of An Old Friend Who Wants To See My Baby?
Hey Pandas, AITA For Being Wary Of An Old Friend Who Wants To See My Baby?

I ended up answerin to her that I felt uncomfortable about our last meeting and that even though I’m sad about her burden I can’t be the person to ease that pain. I told her about the help option that is free and all she needs to do is call them. I said I didn’t appreciate her telling about her crush especially in front of my wife. And for these reasons we shouldn’t schedule any visitings. She answered right away. She said she was sorry I felt that way. She was just trying to understand what happened back in the day and because I said I also had hard time as teenager, she tought we could talk about it. (To clarify; when we were leaving the coffee shop and the first time she started about how highschool was difficult to her, I responded that it surely was difficult to everybody and I had my own bad experiences too. This was my attempt to signal her that I understand but don’t want to talk. I should have been clearer at the time.) And

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50 Pointlessly Gendered Examples That Show Society Has Gone Too Far With It (New Pics)
50 Pointlessly Gendered Examples That Show Society Has Gone Too Far With It (New Pics)

He has a point! Please bear with me. I dont know who this guy is or whats his agenda, but might he mean that because women do most of the shopping (one of many ”invisible” works women do) thus they use roads and bridges to ruan these errands, and they may use more likely public transportation or go by walk so s****y roads and bridges makes their life little more difficult and dangerous. Hilary clinton ongelma said something like wars are more dangerous/harmful for women than men and people reacted much like sama way as you guys here. Its important to aknowledge what might lie behind these kind of statements. There is a book about this topic, Invisible women, which I higly recommend everyone to read. Cant remember the authors name, its Perez-something.