911_Dispatcher

I agree with being kind and money is not the issue. We are at least six states away so set up, clean up, etc are kind of out of the question too. It is all in how she has treated us - me - over the past 15 years that I am having such a hard time wrapping my head around. She simply will not accept that I am married to her father, have been for almost 29 years, and will be for the rest of our lives, whether she likes it or not. To her, he is only a checkbook and a fair weather dad. Period. I've seen the way she treats him and talks to him when he does see her (which is maybe once a year) and it is disrespectful and hurtful. If my daughter did that to me, it would be a whole different story. Why she is allowed to disrespect him, I'll never know.

Ouch..... honestly. No. I don't. Hard to love someone who has inflicted so much hurt on you and the ones you love.