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starkey [he/him]
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hi! i'm starkey :] i'm a trans guy [he/him] i love the beatles and grunge music !!!! i really like nirvana :) my favorite beatle is ringo!! my favorite song is one after 909 !!!
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starkey [he/him] · upvoted 29 items
over 2 years ago

See, this is why I still hate telling people I'm bi. At 49 years old I still feel like I have to explain myself, or apologize like being bi is a crime I've perpetrated against the person who's asking, or defend myself and say for the umpteenth time "it has nothing to do with greed - I'm initially attracted to the whole person, not the genitals." That part's a bonus either way. The human body is both a beautiful and a goofy thing. Sadly, I find that we bi peeps are just as discriminated against in the LGBTQ+ community as we were when I first came out 30+ years ago. Anger, exclusion, and/or silence is, sadly, the norm in response to a lot of bisexuals when we come out to someone.
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starkey [he/him] · commented on 11 posts
over 2 years ago

okay, i'm abt to get downvoted to hell for this, but i don't get why there should be people judging, or even a list at all, about people getting haircuts. if they like it, that;s all that matters. not if you, some random stranger on the internet, thinks its ugly or cool or whatever.

