Having a hobby that you absolutely love is great and being able to share it with someone really close to you makes it even more special. This not only means that you get to spend more time together but also helps to communicate better or even see the true colors of another person.
Reddit user @Keanulove99 decided to talk about her experience of sharing the same interest in movies with her boyfriend and ask for advice seeing that they don’t see eye to eye on some of the things.
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Sharing the same interest with your significant other is a great way to find out about each other even more
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The user revealed that she is very much into movies, she enjoys watching her favorite actors play, and she even has certain rituals that she follows when she watches them. So she and her boyfriend decided to have weekly movie nights where he would come over and they would spend their time together doing something they both like. However, the woman revealed that her boyfriend has a very annoying habit of spoiling movie endings for her.
Reddit user decided to tell the story of how she tried to share the love for movies with her boyfriend
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Soon she encountered a problem of her boyfriend telling her the spoilers of the movies
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This kept happening, so the user decided to have a conversation with the boyfriend and ask him to stop this. The man explained this behavior as a “habit” but he agreed that it was wrong for him to act this way, so he promised to cut it. However, he did not keep his promise for long. This kept happening, so the user decided to have a conversation with the boyfriend and ask him to stop this. The man explained this behavior as a “habit” but he agreed that it was wrong for him to act this way, so he promised to cut it. However, he did not keep his promise for long.
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The couple decided to have their movie Thursdays as usual after the boyfriend (who the user called Andy) promised that he would not try to find the movie spoilers on the Internet. Some people might think that maybe there is nothing wrong with wanting to know something in advance, but the thing that triggered the narrator the most was that she didn’t want to know the end of the movie until she saw it herself. However, the boyfriend would spoil it for her too even after she explicitly told him not to do it.
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The user noticed that during the movie the man was uncomfortable but he didn’t do anything suspicious. That was until the girlfriend heard some noise that reminded a lot of phone keyboard when she realized that the boyfriend broke his promise and now was looking for clues about how the movie ended.
This made her really mad, so she decided to stop watching movies with him as he made it really difficult for her to enjoy his company. Now the woman is thinking and asking whether she was right by reacting this way.
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Even though the woman insisted to stop doing this and ruining movie endings for him, he still kept doing so until she decided to end their "movie Thursdays"
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People in the comments were pretty unanimous with their decision. They found the guy being disrespectful and selfish. A lot of users even agreed that they should break up because if he doesn’t take into consideration such small but clearly important things to his girlfriend, how their relationship can evolve into something more serious.
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People online agreed that his behavior was unacceptable and even suggested that she should break up with him
