“I Turned Him In”: Person Learns That Dad Secretly Ruined Their Chances Of Buying A House

Normally, family are the people one can always count on in their lives, for help, advice and sometimes even money. So if you started to get strange charges to your bank account, you would probably not immediately jump to the idea that a parent might be engaged in multiple levels of fraud.

A netizen was denied a home loan, so they decided to do some digging and discovered that their father had taken out three credit cards that they defaulted on. We reached out to the person in the story via private message and will update the article when they get back to us.

Image source: Where-aremypants

Image source: Where-aremypants

Credit card fraud is one of the most common forms of identity theft. As in this story, people will get the details from someone and open up bank accounts, take out loans and acquire credit cards in their name. While it’s not a comfortable thought, family members do have plausible deniability to ask you personal details and already know things like a birth date and location. Not a pleasant thought, but something to always remember, since most professional thieves have to work a lot harder to get this data.

Generally, this crime is a lot more simple, credit cards are lost and stolen and the thieves simply try to milk them for as long as possible. The father’s crime was more complex, repeated and premeditated, there is no way he could have done any of this “by accident.” Most might believe their in-laws are capable of something like this, but not their literal parents.

For example, one’s credit score is very very important for major life decisions, good loans and all sorts of other things. Having it messed up just so some random person can save on their bills is not worth the cost at all. Even worse, the father trying to gaslight this person into thinking “it’s fine” is disgusting, as this sort of debt and defaults don’t just go away.

In the US alone, identity fraud ends up costing billions of dollars every year, with similar numbers for countries like the UK and Australia. Over 60 million Americans have had their identities stolen, although this doesn’t necessarily mean anything illegal was done with them. Interestingly, most victims identified the reputational damage as the worst issue over loss of money.

In some cases, the criminals will even invent wholly new credit card applicants. They will use bits of data from various, real people to make a “synthetic” applicant, with just enough information to qualify. They will then use this card for as long as they can until the credit card company shuts it down.

This sort of thing, if left unresolved, will impact mortgages, it might even prevent them from getting one in the first place. It will mean higher interest loans, it might mean that they can’t even work with certain banks. The nature of credit card fraud means that the authorities have to be involved, the father can’t just write a check.

The father has also done this before and avoided criminal charges, so actually being punished for this crime is important. As some commenters noted, he will simply do this again. Indeed, he has all the tools he needs already, if he feels cornered by bills and other expenses, there is no reason why he would simply commit fraud that has worked so well for him in the past.

Fortunately, as shared in the update, the victim has seen reason and will be escalating things. Besides getting their own credit record straight, it’s also important to get justice for the people this man has scammed in the past. Normally, parents being entitled is annoying, but rarely results in actual crimes.