For some, unpleasant events from childhood aren’t easy to shake off. These people carry the trauma for years into their adult life, with the pain as fresh as if it happened yesterday.
In this woman’s case, she continues to live with the torment courtesy of her aunt, whom she claimed was perpetually intoxicated at the time. Since then, she has associated Easter egg hunts with nothing but memories she would rather forget.
Childhood trauma is not easy to let go of for many people
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For this woman, Easter egg hunts are forever ruined, thanks to her aunt
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Years later, she is still looking to get revenge and has asked the internet for help
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Traumatic experiences from childhood carry deep emotional wounds
The author clearly has not been able to let go of the resentment toward her aunt. Even in her 20s, the wound likely still feels as fresh as if it had occurred recently.
Childhood trauma carries a severe psychological impact, according to psychotherapist Amy Morin. In an article for Verywell Mind, among the mental health impacts she mentioned were depression, emotional distress, and anger control issues.
The latter appears the most evident, given the author’s desire for revenge even years after it all happened.
Childhood trauma may also impact a person’s relationship with other people when they grow older. According to Morin, this is especially true if they experience it from a caregiver, including a family member.
“Children's attachment to their caregivers can help them learn to trust others, manage emotions, and positively interact with the world around them,” she wrote, adding that trauma from a caregiver may teach the child that the world around them “is a scary place,” and that “people are dangerous.”
Healing from childhood trauma takes work. Clinical psychologist Alexa Roncero says it begins with acknowledgment and patience with oneself.
“The key here is to stop and think: you were not responsible for what happened. Your childhood trauma has left a scar — and you’re trying your best to heal,” she wrote, while also noting the importance of reaching out for help, particularly by relying on loved ones for emotional support.
The author may be better off distancing herself from her aunt to establish boundaries for her peace of mind. But of course, the occasional act of petty revenge is likewise satisfying and sends a strong message, as long as she isn’t hurting anyone.
People in the comments had no shortage of suggestions
The author posted an update
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She revealed that her Reddit post had turned into a topic of conversation within the family
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She also shared how her family members gave the aunt in question her much-needed reality check
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Readers were delighted by the update
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