To most people, acting neighborly means being friendly, helpful, and welcoming. Need to borrow a cup of sugar? I’ve got you. Need someone to keep an eye on your car while you’re on vacation? Easy. Thank you, here are some freshly baked brownies I made, enjoy!
But we can’t all be best friends with our neighbors. And it’s definitely better to live next to strangers who don’t acknowledge your existence than to be stuck with neighbors who never leave you alone.
One homeowner recently posted on the ‘Entitled People’ subreddit detailing how her next-door neighbor started driving her crazy after turning her home into a rambunctious party house.
Below, you’ll find the full story, as well as some of the reactions from invested readers.
It’s common for neighbors with different lifestyles to butt heads
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But this woman reached her breaking point after her entitled neighbor treated her like a free maintenance worker
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The vast majority of Americans dislike at least one of their neighbors
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Whether you live in an apartment building or a home in a residential neighborhood, there’s a good chance you’ve had an issue with one of your neighbors before. In fact, a survey from LendingTree found that 73% of Americans dislike at least one of their neighbors.
As far as why Americans decide that they aren’t fans of their neighbors, the top reasons cited were: giving off a “weird vibe,” making too much noise, being rude, having disruptive pets, being nosy or a busybody, failing to maintain the exterior of their home, having loud or unruly children, stealing parking spots, smoking, having differing political views, and using their home as a short-term rental property.
The neighbors in this story seem to check off at least two of those boxes! Apparently, noise complaints often come along with Airbnbs, IGMS notes on its site. This often leads to complaints, but the issue can quickly escalate.
For example, neighbors might check whether the Airbnb violates any municipal or community laws or regulations, in which case, the hosts might be fined or have to shut down the rental property. At the same time, disgruntled neighbors can report the property to Airbnb, which can lead to an investigation.
And if things really get out of hand, neighbors might call law enforcement or even file a lawsuit against the homeowners running a short-term rental property. Legal action is typically a last resort, as it can be an exhausting and expensive process for all involved. But it’s still wise for Airbnb hosts to take precautions and be considerate towards neighbors to minimize issues.
It’s an Airbnb host’s responsibility to make sure that their rental doesn’t wreak havoc on the entire neighborhood
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IGMS recommends communicating with nearby residents and keeping them in the loop before hosting short-term guests. Answer any questions they have, provide them with a small token of appreciation, such as a bottle of wine or a box of chocolates, to be neighborly, and provide them with a form of communication to reach you in case issues ever arise.
It’s also a good idea to invest in software and tools to manage noise before guests arrive, as it’s much easier to prevent issues than to resolve them later. Hosts can also screen potential guests before accepting their requests by reading their previous reviews. It’s not worth it to have someone in your home who’s been known to make lots of noise and leave a mess if it means they might damage your property and your relationships with neighbors.
Finally, hosts should provide clear instructions for guests. Tell them exactly where to park (and where not to park), and give detailed directions for getting to the property and into the property. Make it clear that parties and loud events are prohibited, and ask them to kindly respect your neighbors. And if necessary, alert them of any penalties they may face for failing to abide by the rules.
Conflicts with neighbors are inevitable, whether you live in a suburb full of quiet families or a building packed with college students. So it’s important for everyone to know how to keep the peace and mitigate or minimize conflicts. After all, your home is where you should feel most comfortable. You shouldn’t have to worry about having awkward run-ins with the couple next door or fear that you’ll find an aggressive note on your car’s windshield when you leave for work in the morning.
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Readers shared their reactions to the story, including suggestions for what the homeowner can do next, and she joined in on the conversation
