Going through a breakup and having to move out is disruptive enough, but having your identity stolen on top of it just takes the cake. Credit card fraud can destroy your credit score and have debt recovery services knocking down your door for payback.
This was the situation facing one Redditor when his ex-girlfriend opened two credit cards in his name before maxing them out and leaving him in a mountain of debt. When he went after her, she got her new boyfriend, the violent type, to threaten him.
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Breakups can get messy, but for this guy, it almost got very expensive too
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About a year after his breakup and unbeknownst to him, his ex-girlfriend opened two credit cards in his name and maxed them out
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The guy was shocked when he got served with a lawsuit for over $5,000 for a defaulted credit card, but that was just the beginning of his troubles
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When he called his ex about it, she denied everything, but got her violent new boyfriend to threaten him
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The guy turned to the web for legal advice and, a month later, updated the community with the news that his ex-girlfriend had been arrested
OP begins his story by telling the community that he and his ex-girlfriend split up just over a year ago but had lived together for several years, giving her easy access to his financial info. After he moved out, he couldn’t find his previous tax returns, but figured they’d just been lost in the move.
Imagine his surprise, then, when he got served with a lawsuit for over $5,000 dollars for a defaulted credit card. When he pulled his credit, he discovered that not only had the card been defaulted for months, but there was another credit card that had been closed for $2,500. OP immediately disputed both of the accounts on all three bureaus’ websites.
He managed to talk to someone about one of the cards, and it turned out it had been sent to his old address. He adds that he received the statements for one of the cards and the billings were for Nordstrom and Macy’s, his ex’s two favorite shopping haunts. At this point, OP assumed she had used his SSN from his old tax returns to open the accounts.
He decided to call his ex about it, and she denied everything, screaming at him that he couldn’t seriously accuse her of anything. Shortly after that, OP got a call from a blocked number; it was his ex’s new boyfriend threatening to make his life a living hell. Unsure what to do, OP turned to Reddit for advice, which he duly followed.
In an update to his original post, OP thanked the community for their legal guidance and concluded by sharing that his ex had been pulled over on her way to work and arrested, wasn’t together with her boyfriend anymore, and his credit score was up 200 points.
OP’s ex-girlfriend is on the hook for two things: credit card fraud and identity theft.
According to the Security.org 2024 Credit Card Fraud Report, 60% of U.S. credit card holders have been victimized by fraud, and 45% have experienced fraud multiple times. 52 million Americans had fraudulent charges on their credit or debit cards last year, with unauthorized spending exceeding a staggering $5 billion.
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Digital security expert Brett Cruz writes that credit card security has become increasingly critical as the U.S. edges towards becoming a cashless economy. American consumers rely heavily on their plastic, supplying fraudsters with a steady stream of potential targets.
Despite the sweeping impact of credit card fraud, this crime remains somewhat misunderstood. Consumers might assume their accounts are safe as long as they keep their physical cards secure, yet most unauthorized transactions involve credit cards that weren’t lost or physically stolen but rather swindled through remote technology.
Financial institutions are already spending billions of dollars on cybersecurity to keep credit card systems protected. Still, a couple of simple good habits can go a long way to keeping one’s accounts secure.
Experts recommend that every cardholder adhere to basic precautions such as regularly reviewing credit card statements, subscribing to spending alerts, enabling multi-factor authentication, enrolling in a credit monitoring service, and using online password managers.
According to the AARP website, identity fraud cost Americans $43 billion in 2023. The issues of account takeovers and new-account fraud, which sees criminals use a victim’s personal information to open fraudulent new accounts, are growing, Javelin reports.
Account takeover fraud produced nearly $13 billion in losses in 2023 (up from $11 billion in 2022), while new-account fraud reached $5.3 billion (compared with $3.9 billion in 2022).
The Javelin survey also discovered that resolving a case of identity fraud is now more challenging — or at least more time-consuming — than ever before. The researchers reported that fraud victims spent an average of 10 hours resolving identity fraud, up from just six hours in 2022.
With identity theft running rampant, it’s very fortunate for OP that he had his issues resolved so swiftly, along with a restored credit score. For his ex, depending on state law, she could be facing a felony conviction.
What would you have done if you’d found yourself in OP’s shoes? Do you think his ex should get the maximum sentence? Let us know your opinion in the comments!
Redditors in the comments said his story would serve as an inspiration to those seeking justice but warned him to put a freeze on his SSN, while others compared their own local ID systems
