45 Times Experts Who Should've Known Better Were Shockingly And Dangerously Wrong

I read a peer-reviewed research article on Deaf babies of hearing parents who receive cochlear implants. It was comparing English language acquisition between babies whose parents learned and practiced ASL prior to the implants (they can't get them until age 1) vs. the babies who did not get any ASL.

The babies with no ASL picked up English faster so the recommendation of these medical experts was not to teach ASL if you were getting your baby a cochlear implant.


To put it in another way, these "experts" were recommending NOT TO effectively *'communicate* with your baby for an entire year so they test better on English when they're a bit older.


What made this insane is that ASL is a language, and we know that bilingual children test poorer in individual languages early on. Not because they're not learning effectively, but because they are learning the same number of words in two separate languages

Anyway, I'm still outraged 6 years later.
How many more dastardly studies do people just assume are reasonable because they don't understand basic and seemingly obvious facts?

I was in the military and got appendicitis. My CO recognized my condition and sent me to the hospital before the unit started daily exercises. After a few tests and a few hours, the doctors sent me back to the barracks because my fever was ‘too low for appendicitis’. They didn’t do a white blood cell count test either. Nine hours later when the rest of the unit got back, my CO checked in on me. I couldn’t stand, walk, or hardly move. He put me in his jeep and drove me to the naval hospital emergency room and cursed them out as only a Navy officer can. They quickly determined I had acute appendicitis and I was in surgery within 30 minutes. Appendix was about to burst. I oddly still had a low fever but everything else screamed acute appendicitis. Those doctors got an earful as I vaguely remember.

At a previous job, one of my monitors broke. The head of IT came to swap it out with a brand new monitor that he unboxed in my office.

While he was setting it up, he froze and said he’d have to return it because the monitor wasn’t compatible with my computer. This was because the computer only had HDMI out and the monitor only had DVI in.

The thing was, the monitor came with an HDMI to DVI cable. When I pointed this out, he said “you can’t convert HDMI to DVI.” I tried to explain that you absolutely could, and why would they include the cable otherwise. He argued with me, boxed it back up without even trying the cable. and left.

I still think about this interaction and how he was probably making 20x what I did and yet he was an idiot.

College anthropology professor said that Buddhist monks wore orange because it was a color not found in nature.

Uh, oranges? Mandarins? Pumpkins? Tigers? Tiger lilies? Cantaloupe? Class fired back with these and more and she got angry and ended class early. Next few classes were handled by the TA then she finally returned but lectures were super low key.

She also said women absolutely cannot get pregnant while nursing. Yeah, it is less likely to happen but not at all impossible. Our textbook even had photos of indigenous women of various cultures with children quite close in age, debunking her statement.

Spent 5 years in my 20’s being told I had COPD due to chronic bronchitis. I was getting colds every other month that would turn into bronchitis and I couldn’t stop coughing. I was a healthy weight, a performer at a theme park (so basically paid to work out 5-6 times a day), and had never smoked anything. They put me on what I later found out were insanely high doses of Prednisone that also wasn’t tapered correctly and I ended up with prednisone induced diabetes, although at the time I was told I was type 2 and it was because of my weight gain (which was primarily due to the prednisone.)

I finally went to an integrated medicine doctor to figure out why a previously healthy 20 something had COPD and type 2 diabetes. They asked me if I had ever been referred to an ENT? I had not. One ENT visit with CT scan later, found out I had messed up sinuses and even though I had zero symptoms at the time had an active sinus infection. And that sinus infection had likely been there the whole 5 years and would flare anytime I got sick. The post nasal drip I didn’t even know I was having was what led to the nonstop coughing. A month of antibiotics and a sinus surgery later, and I almost never get sick anymore. As soon as I was off the prednisone, by blood sugar went back to normal, no more type 2 diabetes.

It frustrates me when I think about the years spent watching my health decline due to misdiagnosis and mistreatment.

When I was in the Army National Guard, during a military exercise, the person who was serving as the S3 (operations officer) decided to just TOTALLY ignore my advice. I was a military intelligence officer. My job was to provide analysis as to what the enemy during an exercise was going to do. I went into heavy detail as to what the enemy was going to do, and basically said, “I wouldn’t do that if I was you.”

So…this officer, whose job it is to listen to the S2 and then react accordingly, just didn’t. When I explained some errors in this reasoning during the war gaming piece, he hand-waved it away and said, “We can fight through it.” I decided to protest and say that’s absolutely against the rules of this exercise. The reason is that I said IEDs took out some trucks, you can’t just ignore that.

So, when it comes time to brief the full staff, I didn’t change my analysis at all, in fact, I doubled down and used much more forceful language. The battalion commander stated it was the best intel briefing he ever received.

So, the next day the exercise goes live. Of course he goes down a route I explicitly stated “DO NOT DO THIS.” Unbeknownst to me at the time, he was interviewing to be the full time ops officer. This was supposed to just be a mere formality. He completely botched it. If this was the real world, about 25 solders would’ve lost their lives. 25…that is a very bad day.

He got mad at me for what happened. What I told him was that he could’ve just listened to me and I would’ve taken the heat if something went wrong. You’re the one who chose to go down the route I said not to. That’s on you.

I’m on a domestic well system. Recently woke up to find no pressure in the header tank. Called out the local plumbing franchise and guy tells me my well has dried up and needs to be redrilled as in mega$$$… Say WHAT now?

Called out another more local guy - turns out the well control box was fried (and has probably been shorting out for years). $200 for him and $135 for a new control box and all fixed.

When a doctor told me having a baby would cure my migraines... Mate, my mother and sister would very much beg to differ.

Oh and then he said if my husband wouldn't give me a baby, to get a new husband.

Oh man, my partner's mother. She claims to be a nurse but that honestly can't be right because she seems to know absolutely nothing about the human body or illness or medicine. 


Some of her greatest hits include:


My partner being severely ill with the flu and asking their mom to pick up one of those fruit/veggie smoothies so they could get some calories and vitamins into their system. This woman brings back a Frosty and says "it's the same thing"


Insisted AIDs/HIV could not be transmitted via semen


Insisting heating pads were useless for menstrual cramps


There are others but I've had to repress them for fear the rage of remembering might induce a stroke. 


The worst part though is that when she thinks you're wrong about her field she becomes super smug and insufferable. She'll laugh in your face and mercilessly mock you. But God help you if you point out and prove she's wrong. .

Surgery friend worked with urologist that removed the wrong kidney, at trial the MD said he didn’t know there was a right and left on x rays.

My first son was born. First night in the hospital and he slept restlessly and kinda wheezing. Something didn't seem right. We tell our midwife who agrees and gets the doc to check him out. Doc says he's fine. Throughout the day still sort breathing a little weird, lethargic etc. Midwife again gets doc to check him out. Doc says hes fine again and says we can go home. Midwife refuses and demands tests etc. They eventually and reluctantly agree. Turns out he had strep b infection which if left untreated for much longer likely would have developed into meningitis/ permanent brain damage. Son is rushed into NICU and spent two weeks there. Luckily he is healthy today. Thank God for our Midwife.

Dr said i had a 1 inch aneurysm sitting on my brain and said they needed to get me to a higher level of care for emergency brain surgery and i wouldn’t make it by ambulance so i was careflown to a different hospital roughly 18 minute flight when i arrived and they couldn’t get my blood pressure down with a ton of bp meds the hospital i got to figured out it wasn’t an aneurysm it was actually a blood clot by that time the stroke was completed and all the damage was done, over 80 percent of the right side of my brain died from getting no oxygen. i llost all mobility in my left side. ‘y vision in my left eye, short term memory how to walk basic math how to write properly. i was 31 at the time and this was back in 2019. the second hospital i was flown to told my parents i had a 5% chance of living through the night. if i happened to survive i’d be in a vegetative state for the remainder of my life and that they would need to find a place to put me in for 24/7 care back home in Texas. at the time i was working on an oil rig in oklahoma. a year of intensive rehabilitation i got my eyesight back i relearned how to walk, do basic math shower cook money management. i rebuilt my short term memory and after 2 years i relearned how to drive. my life was irrevocably changed. but i’m grateful to still be here with my family and two children, not in a vegetative state.

Went to urgent care to see if they could test for pertussis after being exposed to it. (I was new to the city and hadn’t met with new pcp yet)

NP who saw me kept talking about the pertussis “virus” and berating me for saying the person who exposed me was now taking antibiotics but hadn’t been when I was exposed. (“It’s unconscionable that they prescribed antibiotics for pertussis.”)

I felt like I was slowly going insane so I googled it just to make sure…yeah pertussis is a bacterial infection. I got out of that urgent care as fast as I could.

My high school guidance counselor told me my passion for video games was "a phase" and to pick a real career. i'm now a senior game developer making six figures. thanks for the motivation, mrs. johnson.

Husband had knee pain and a fever. ER told him it was nothing and the fever was a fluke. After additional testing, orthopedic doctor told him he had a calf tear and told him to walk in the orthopedic boot as therapy. Never got better and knee pain intensified. Turned out there was no tear in his calf, but he did have a life threatening staph infection in his knee. He lived to tell the tale, but the infection compromised his knee cartilage irreparably because the doctor dithered around with his misdiagnosis and refused to believe the patient. It took a second opinion from an associate in the same practice to address the real issue.

In October of 2015, I had a GP I’d never seen before tell me that my shortness of breath, which had been growing exponentially worse over the past several months, was just an upper respiratory infection. She gave me a nebulizer treatment and sent me home.

A couple hours later, I texted my dad (also a GP, but obviously one who knows me infinitely better) to please come and listen to my chest because I was sure the other doctor was wrong. Being a doctor’s kid, it took a lot for me to go against an MD’s professional opinion and go for a second one. But I *knew* she was wrong.

Dad listened to my chest and then immediately took me to the ER. Diagnosis: extensive saddle pulmonary embolism that very likely would’ve proved fatal if it had been ignored. I was admitted and spent five days in the hospital.

My mom and my husband were ready to head to the other doctor’s place and tear her a new one. Dad took it upon himself to calmly explain to the doctor that her misdiagnosis could’ve cost me my life, and pointed out what she’d ignored.

Needless to say, I never returned to that doctor.

I had a small leak in my attic. I asked for repair quotes from 3 companies. The most expensive was $18,000.

It turned out to be porous chimney bricks absorbing water from rain and cost $35 to seal them myself.

- Dr. recommended a topical antibiotic cream for a marble sized cyst in my thigh, not on the surface.

- Same cyst, different Dr. drained it without gowning up, ruined his shirt TWICE, because after the first damage he got sprayed again.

- Same clinic, different Dr. told me my memory issues that left to me getting 8 parking tickets in one week were "probably because I didn't want to pay for parking" Didn't read my chart, recent meningitis- missed that I had a temporal lobe brain injury.

A number of doctors sent my sister home from the hospital when she had appendicitis. She kept going back and eventually a doctor there said “I see you’ve been here a few times and nobody’s ordered an ultrasound so we’re gonna do that”, after the ultrasound they told her she needed immediate surgery to remove her appendix.

The crazy part is my mom’s a former nurse and when the symptoms began she told my sister it sounded like appendicitis and they needed to go to the hospital right away and she also told the doctor there that she thought it was appendicitis and the guy brushed her off.

Best friend's wife had sore jaw. Dentist and orthodontist said it was TMJ. Eighteen months later the soreness became pain and it was diagnosed as stage 3 cancer. Treatment put it into remission for two years. Two years after that she passed away.