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"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
Travel,LifestyleJUN 17, 2026

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For

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Landing in the United States for the first time is a lot to take in, no matter where you are coming from.
When non-Americans were asked to list the weirdest things they’ve experienced, these common suspects popped up online: the aggressive tipping culture, the mystery math of sales tax, and the bizarre public bathroom stalls.
The conversation has reached a fever pitch lately. With the FIFA World Cup drawing a fresh wave of international fans, many newcomers are expressing their confusion and surprise across Reddit.
But the list isn’t all bad. Tourists are also discovering the sudden warmth of the American stranger, and the traditions that make this country so uniquely charming.
Whether you’re trying to decode American life or a local who wants to see their country through fresh eyes, we’ve rounded up the internet’s most honest confessions. Here is what it’s actually like to experience America for the first time.

#1

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
Free refills. I thought people were joking.
7points

#2

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
Quoting my Japanese cousin who came to visit in Houston, TX: I thought those giant trucks were only in movies. Everyone drives them here.
7points

#3

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
In-laws from UK, sister in law from Norway. Visited us in US on the 4th of July one year. Turned on the Nathan's Famous hotdog eating contest. Wonderful mix of disgust, confusion, and awe on their faces.
6points

The 2026 FIFA World Cup was supposed to bring the world to America’s doorstep. According to industry estimates, over a million international visitors were expected to pour into host cities, dropping a collective $6.4 billion and spending close to $5,000 each.

But high airfares, and visa friction for travelers from Latin America, Africa, and Asia have kept the numbers below expectations.

As The Telegraph puts it, “the event might not be the once-in-a-generation tourism boom that Fifa’s Gianni Infantino and his ilk have been promising for much of the past four years.”

#4

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
A couple of years ago I took my cousins from Naples on their first trip to America to Medieval Times because I thought it would be hilarious and it was. They had no idea what was going on, especially because they don’t speak English, but they loved it.
6points

#5

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
My ex was Finnish and she was so shocked when two random girls we passed complimented her outfit. She was like "why did they say that? what did they mean by that?" We just do that in the Midwest. That was the only time she was so confused she had to ask me about it. Complimenting strangers.
6points

#6

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
We took our Saudi exchange student to the State Fair and the funnel cake was THE THING. He wanted video and to talk to the guy who made them... he was enamored.
6points

The tourism slump isn’t just a World Cup problem though. The cracks were already there.

The US saw a 5.5% drop in foreign visits in 2025 compared to 2024, despite being the largest travel and tourism market in the world. Even as 80 million more people traveled internationally that year, many simply chose to go elsewhere.

#7

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
My elderly grandparents from India came to visit and were walking around our mostly white suburban neighborhood. They came back stunned at the friendliness of Americans. They all said good morning and smiled as they passed. One car stopped near them and asked if they were tired and needed a ride home.
5points

#8

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
Australian here who has family in the US so I'm a pretty regular visitor. These are things that still weird me out:

Pharmaceutical ads on TV for conditions I've never heard of. They're just making new stuff up to sell pills right?

The arcane tipping system. You tip the person who brings you food but not the one who makes the food?

Fetishisation of the military. They must hear "thank you for your service" 100 times a day.

Prices not including tax. Americans say it's because each state has different taxes, but what's stopping an individual store including taxes in their price tags?

This is changing now but why the penny still exists.

Obsession with being a taxpayer. Every time someone is angry they shout "I'm a taxpayer!" Yeah everyone is you jerk.
5points

Experts believe that the US has larger issues as to why it still lags with international tourism, despite hosting the World Cup.

According to the US Travel Association, soaring costs for flights, gas, hotels, and food are actively forcing prospective visitors to rethink their trips.

Hard-line immigration crackdowns and safety concerns are also keeping some travelers away.

“To avoid losing its leadership position the US must invest in promoting its attractiveness, both in international markets and during the summer of football; change perception and position the US as a welcoming destination,” Gloria Guevara, president and CEO of World Travel and Tourism Council, said.

#9

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
American flags. EVERYWHERE.
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5points

#10

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
I saw two guys with cowboy hats on going through a drive through.... On horses.... I had no words and still don't.
5points

#11

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
A friend flew home to Austin Texas with her boyfriend who was from England and visiting for the first time. We picked them up at the airport and immediately took them to Ginny’s little longhorn saloon, home of chicken poo bingo.

We dragged this poor man into the most Austin experience you could have at the time… a tiny bar on a Sunday with every person you can imagine in Austin: hipsters, cowboys, goths, frat dudes, etc. Everyone grooving together while Dale Watson played, two stepping on the tiny dance floor. In the corner was a crockpot situation with make your own chili dogs. American football was playing on the tvs. The place was packed.

This was the day to come because Sundays is when they do chicken poo bingo. For this, they put plywood on top of the pool table with a numbered grid painted on it and chicken wire encapsulating it. For $1 you get a ticket with a number and wait. What are you waiting for? You’re waiting for the chicken that is in that bingo board cage to poo. And if that poo hits your number, you win. This is chicken poo bingo.

The look on this poor man’s face of the sheer, overstimulating Americanness of the situation was worth it. He was game and joined right in but you could just tell he was thinking what the hell am I doing here.
4points

For the tourists who did come, America is delivering something no itinerary could have prepared them for.

The sticker shock hits first. Prices are higher than most visitors anticipated, and the tipping culture — expected on top of already steep bills — has left many fumbling at checkout screens.

In a survey, 90% reported that they would feel obliged to participate in tipping if they traveled to the US. On the other hand, 71% of non-Americans said that they do not experience pressure to tip when in their home countries.

But the surprises cut both ways. First-time visitors have been floored by the sheer size of everything from portions, roads, pickup trucks, to supermarkets. Some were charmed by the warmth of total strangers, the magic of a Buc-ee’s pit stop, and the variety of food joints.

#12

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
We’ve hosted a number of German exchange students. We live in the southwest. Their biggest takeaways were:

• The huge yellow school buses, they thought that was just in the movies
• Iced sweet tea and free refills—I can just ask for another one?? One mom even asked me for the “recipe” after her child returned home.
• How far apart everything is
• Ceiling fans, and in every room, they thought this was revolutionary
• Every single building is air-conditioned
• The lack of nearby large places to hike and walk without taking a drive there
• Portion sizes
• Every kid having a smartphone
• Kids are rarely alone without parents—e.g. they don’t bike to school, or walk and wander around town together

They also have a fixation on Raising Cane’s. 🤷🏼‍♀️.
4points

#13

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
My in-laws freak the F out every time I turn right on red.
4points

#14

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
Buc-ee's. We were driving down to Florida from NYC and were just looking for a quick snack and nothing could've prepared us for *that*. At some point the whole staff did some chant because a pork has been put on a board?? I don't even know. Really clean toilets though, and I enjoyed the jerky they had and the lime fudge.
4points

Culture shock is a psychological response to the loss of familiar social cues. It’s a feeling of disorientation experienced by someone who is suddenly subjected to an unfamiliar culture, way of life, or set of attitudes.

“It’s easy to attribute culture shock to external causes i.e. how ‘different’ our new environment is, but the truth is that culture shock is more about internal factors like how big we perceive the culture gap to be and how effective our coping skills are,” says Dr. Nicola Cann, an educational psychologist.

#15

"Overstimulating Americanness": 79 Parts Of US Culture Tourists Weren't Ready For
Any tourist here reading this. You need to see if there's any state fairs on within your vacation period.

The food is an experience.
4points

#16

This is from the other perspective, but some years back I was in my small hometown in central Pennsylvania and a couch surfer from Bulgaria was staying at our house for a few nights. I decided to show him around town one afternoon and the most perplexed question he asked the whole trip was why they were playing country music absolutely everywhere.
4points

#17

Had spent a month or so in Boston in ‘18, got the Amtrak down to NYC for a few days before flying back to the uk. Walking out of msg subway station to find myself at the bottom of a man made canyon of skyscrapers was like nothing else I’ve experienced. It was almost a sublime experience.
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4points

You would think reading Reddit or watching TikTok would prepare travelers, but research shows it doesn’t.

The shock usually follows a pattern. First comes the high where everything feels exciting and new. Then reality sets in, and the small frustrations start to pile up. After that, a quiet adjustment. And finally, acceptance.

Research shows that most visitors never make it past stage two on a short trip.

Experts believe that although not all people experience these stages with the same intensity or at the same time, everyone experiences all of them at some point.

#18

Visited New York and Boston last year and honestly didn't find anything too out there. Bit bigger, wee bit more brash maybe. Really nice people everywhere.
Then I tried to watch a bit of TV at night in the hotel: wholly hell there was an advert lasting 15 minutes for every 5 minutes of programming. Don't know why anyone bothers.
4points

#19

I'm American but I had a funny interaction with a foreigner yesterday. I live in Seattle and the world cup is happening here so there are tons of people from all over the world visiting right now. Yesterday was the down town art walk and my girlfriend and I were sitting outside a gallery painting fridge magnets. This south American family walks by and the mom points at steam coming out of the manhole cover in the street and asks us, "this normal??" And we replied yes. She seemed flabbergasted. It was cute and hilarious.
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4points

#20

Public toilets lack of privacy, why no doors that close nicely but leaves gaps?
I could only go to the toilet in my hotelroom.
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4points

We’ve all heard about intelligence quotient (IQ) and emotional intelligence (EQ), but have you heard of cultural intelligence or CQ?

It’s your ability to function and thrive in unfamiliar cultural settings.

Experts believe that CQ can help us adapt to culture shock. The higher our CQ, the lesser the effect of culture shock on our ability to cope in new situations.

A study tracking travelers across 50 countries found that empathy and personality play a significant role in how much stress people experience abroad. The more open and agreeable you are, the softer the landing.

Relationships are the other big factor — the more genuine connections you build with locals, the faster the adjustment.

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