While a wedding is all about one happy couple, it should still be an enjoyable celebration for everyone involved. Friends and family members gather around to give speeches, drink their hearts out and dance the night away to show how much they love the newlyweds. And of course, there’s usually a delicious meal and some scrumptious cake involved.
But when one man realized he wasn’t going to fill up on the scraps left at a friend’s wedding, he decided that he couldn’t last the rest of the night with a grumbling stomach. So he took it upon himself to order some pizza. Below, you’ll find the full story of how this man got kicked out of the wedding, as well as a conversation between him and Bored Panda.
Providing plenty of refreshments at a wedding is one of the easiest ways to keep guests happy
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So when this man realized that there wasn’t nearly enough food left at the buffet, he took it upon himself to order pizza
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Later, the man clarified a few details about the situation
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He also returned with an update on what the newlyweds are planning next
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"This whole situation has actually made me and my friend better friends, and there is no animosity between me and his wife"
To find out more about this situation, we reached out to the Reddit user who shared this story, Adorable_Distance_15. He was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and provide even more background information on the situation. First, we wanted to know how well he knew the bride and groom.
"I met my friend just a couple years back, we both work for the same company," the OP shared. "Over time, we became friends. He was already with [his now wife] for some time prior, but because our friendship is fairly new, (I was surprised I was invited to the wedding) I haven't had a chance to get to know his wife too well. We have met though, me and my wife have had double dates with them before the wedding. She's a really nice person, and she makes him really happy. I was looking forward to seeing them getting married."
We were also curious if the author believed the caterers brought enough food for everyone in the first place. "I think there probably would have been enough food for everyone to have a plate if the in-laws would have considered others," Adorable_Distance_15 says. "I don't blame the caterers, they made what they were paid to make. But I do think they should have ensured that all the tables were called before allowing others to get more."
Next, we wanted to know if the OP would have done anything differently if he was attending the wedding again. "If I could go back, I definitely would have asked the couple if it was okay if I ordered pizza," he admitted. "I kind of was a source of commotion, and I feel bad about that."
But he noted that he is looking forward to what the father-in-law is planning for the couple's next event. "He is handling everything himself. From what I am hearing, it might be a multi day event!" the OP shared. "They are not telling anyone too much, so I'm not too sure what to expect."
As far as what he thought of the replies to his post, the author says he enjoyed reading all the comments. "Though I did see that some people took my post the wrong way, there's not too much I can do about that. I appreciate the comments that said I potentiality helped by feeding people," he added.
Thankfully, there's no bad blood between the friends. "This whole situation has actually made me and my friend better friends, and there is no animosity between me and his wife," Adorable_Distance_15 noted. "I love people who don't hold onto grudges, it's important to instead let the experiences make you a better person, life is too short. Me, my wife and the newlyweds went on a double date at the local pub and laughed about the entire situation. There are going to be a lot of inside jokes going forward; that's how I know our friendship is solid."
Food is one of the most important aspects to consider when wedding planning
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I absolutely love attending weddings, and I’m always begging my friends to get married just so I can go to one. I love love and will definitely cry during the ceremony. Then I’ll spend the rest of the evening dancing my heart out and socializing with dozens of people I’ll likely never see again in my entire life. But oh well, I’ve had a great time celebrating the happy couple! As long as there’s enough food to keep me fueled for the entire night, you won’t see me complaining.
But because weddings often last many hours, food is an integral part of the occasion. According to Brighton Savoy, the average wedding reception will last between four and five hours. But that can only be a fraction of the entire day, as the ceremony might have been between thirty minutes to an hour, and there could have been a cocktail hour in between.
Plus, if the couple has allotted time for photos after the ceremony, it can be hours between the time that guests arrive and when they finally sit down to eat dinner. That’s why it’s crucial to ensure that there are snacks provided along the way or a hearty amount of food served during dinner. After all, a wedding should be a joyous celebration, and having a hundred hangry guests can be an easy way to kill the vibes on your special day.
Guests need enough refreshments to keep their energy and spirits high
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The Gamekeeper’s Inn notes on their site that food is often the most important aspect of a wedding because it’s a great conversation starter for guests. Especially when they’re seated near friends of the bride or groom that they don’t know, it can be difficult to make small talk once they’ve already asked, “So how do you know the happy couple?” Once food is served, it’s something to talk about and something to do.
It makes guests feel comfortable, and it can also make sure they feel cared for. If the meal is delicious and well thought out, guests will be appreciative to the bride and groom for putting so much effort into keeping guests happy. Plus, a great meal is practical in the way that it will provide guests with plenty of energy to get out on that dance floor. Nothing boosts people’s moods and makes them want to cut a rug like some great food and drinks!
And we all know many wedding guests will be drinking quite a bit of alcohol, which is never a good idea on an empty stomach. A hearty dinner can help prevent guests from getting too wasted and ensure that nobody needs a stomach pump later on in the night. Plus, guests tend to expect a great meal after dedicating an entire day to a friend’s wedding. They’ve shown up dressed to the nines, bought an expensive gift and perhaps even traveled to be there. The least the couple can do is keep them well fed.
Keeping wedding guests well fed should be a priority for brides and grooms
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When it comes to making sure wedding guests don’t go hungry, simply having enough food isn’t always as simple as you might expect. First of all, catering at a wedding can be extremely pricey. The Knot reports that the average price per guest for wedding catering in 2023 was $85 per person. And food became even more expensive per person when weddings had over 100 attendees.
But it’s worth it for most couples to provide great food for their loved ones, as 62% noted that refreshments were the most important factor for them when wedding planning. Three quarters of couples also wanted to prioritize their guests being well taken care of and having a good time. It’s wise for brides and grooms to think this way, as Today’s Bride reports that one of the top issues at weddings that annoys guests is not having enough food.
Whether it’s making guests wait far too long for dinner without any snacks before or simply serving tiny portions, guests having grumbling stomachs is a recipe for disaster. The total amount needed for a wedding depends greatly on how many guests will attend, of course, but WeddingWire recommends serving hors d’oeuvres during cocktail hour, salads and sides, a plated, buffet or family style entrée, cake and late-night snacks during the reception.
Avoiding all mishaps can be impossible during a wedding, but making sure guests aren’t starving should be at the top of the priority list. We would love to hear your thoughts on this story in the comments below, pandas. Then, if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda article discussing wedding food drama, look no further than right here!
Many readers sided with man, noting that wedding guests shouldn't go hungry
However, some readers thought the man seriously violated wedding etiquette
