One thing about a grown woman is she is not afraid to eat alone in fact she rather eat alone than with the company of a man who makes her feel alone. She is strong enough to take care for herself but desires a man who will be strong enough to have her back when she is down.
A grown woman is not impressed with being desired by others she expects it based on her respect and love for herself. She knows she has a lot to offer, and therefore sets a high standard into the entry of her heart.
A grown woman has had her shares of mistakes and has learned along the way that when a man really wants a woman he will make it happen without excuses. Any man can open a condom wrapper but not all will open a door for her. She understands her value and won't settle for a boy who has yet to grow up, and while she might help you see the potential in yourself she won't stick around to help you reach it, that's your job not hers.
She desires a man who is man enough to communicate with her, build with her, not someone who internalizes his feelings and wants to play house until he decides if she is who he really wants. Those days where she gave chance after chance for the same repeated behavior are over. She is past that and too grown to deal with a man she feels she has to babysit.
She makes her own money, that doesn't exclude the fact that she wouldn't still appreciate the help from her man. Not a man who can't keep a job. She is strong enough to carry the both of you until you get on your feet but don't take it for granted that she will forever take care of you, and you as her man shouldn't allow her to.
She desires stability she is simply tired of dealing with boys who just want to play house. At this point in her life she rather be alone that with a man who won't help her growth. If she is going to struggle she rather struggle alone than to struggle knowing she has a man who is doing nothing for her. Understand a woman that makes her own money, has her own place, drives her own car is simply looking for love and loyalty. Not your pockets, she can finance herself.
