This is a place to talk about coming out, dealing with homophobia, and asking any questions you have about the community!
#1
Hi I'm aromantic asexual and agender! So I feel 0 romantic attraction 0 sexual attraction and I don't feel like I have a gender! So I'm just no
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#2
yo, I'm just a questioning human who tries to be as nice as possible. We can share ocs, rp or just hang out. I love puns and cheesy jokes.
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#3
DO I need to come out? My mom is pan. But I dont think theyd understand me being ace and agender
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#4
Alex here. I wanted to respond to @chillace, but for some reason bp wont let me comment on posts. I just made my account yesterday, and if a try to comment it just says "account must be approved by bp staff to comment", so if anyone knows how this works or how to fix it please let me know! I tried contacting them via email but haven't gotten a response and/or it didn't send.
But back to what you said chillace, I was going to say that you sould never feel obligated to come out if you're not ready yet or just don't want to in general. If its stressing you out though and want to tell someone, maybe try telling a friend or distant family member you trust before coming out to your parents. But if you're ok with staying closeted, that's totally OK!! I was really nervous about telling anyone, and then I finally decided to tell a friend of mine, and turns out, she's bi! And even though im still not out to my parents, I feel a lot better now that someone knows and can relate and we can talk about it.
Being that you're mom is pan, she will probably be able to somewhat understand not being heterosexual, and hopefully she could at least sympathize with you being agender even if she is cis and cant exactly relate. But it is you're parents and only you know how they would truly react, so how and if you come out in the end is up to you. Anyway, hope that helps ❤💛💚💙💜
But back to what you said chillace, I was going to say that you sould never feel obligated to come out if you're not ready yet or just don't want to in general. If its stressing you out though and want to tell someone, maybe try telling a friend or distant family member you trust before coming out to your parents. But if you're ok with staying closeted, that's totally OK!! I was really nervous about telling anyone, and then I finally decided to tell a friend of mine, and turns out, she's bi! And even though im still not out to my parents, I feel a lot better now that someone knows and can relate and we can talk about it.
Being that you're mom is pan, she will probably be able to somewhat understand not being heterosexual, and hopefully she could at least sympathize with you being agender even if she is cis and cant exactly relate. But it is you're parents and only you know how they would truly react, so how and if you come out in the end is up to you. Anyway, hope that helps ❤💛💚💙💜
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#5
Hey pandas, if you have a nintendo ds and pictochat, do you want to hangout tonight? If so Ill be in chat room A.
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#6
Also, what do we do if there isnt a flag of our sexuality? Like Im agender ace and theres no flag for it. Should I make one or look around for one?
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