Hey Panda What Was Your Most Toxic Friendship

I’m ending my ship from 2020 to 2021 to 2022

This friendship meant nothing to them

And they took the side of someone
They’ve know for 4 month

They Started sending me well really spamming
Me inappropriate furry porn

And didn’t have a care in the world

Well that’s their decision

If they want to be petty bitches

And it’s none of my concern

Because now I’m as free as a horse

I have amazing true friends

That I will love to the end

I never really liked her, but she joined an established friend group when a kind-hearted friend with a bit of a savior complex invited her to our brunches and get togethers. It became very apparent early on that this woman has at least one personality disorder (Borderline and Narcissistic); lots of white lies, narcissistic behavior, and the most extreme case of jealousy I had ever seen. When our good friend got married, and the Personality Disorder was not asked to be a bridesmaid, the crazy sh*t really hit the fan.

The Personality Disorder doesn’t seem to understand that we don’t really like her, and that the entire relationship is predicated on pity. We feel sorry for her. She has such a sad life and we just wanted to help, but she is proving to be a toxic tumor that none of us can figure out how to get rid of. Some of her worst issues:

Lying! About everything, even made up a boyfriend for a while. They even “got engaged” (never had a ring though) but when it was time to meet him he suddenly took a job overseas and the relationship “ended.”

Gossiping about everyone and the most judgmental person I have ever met.

Pathological need to be the center of attention. She really believes that she is an “influencer” and posts the cringiest photos on IG. She once passed her phone around the bar with a photo of her in some lingerie…everyone in that bar mocked her and she didn’t even realize. When another friend tried to intervene and stop it, the Personality Disorder flew into a rage accusing the friend of being jealous. There is NOTHING to be jealous of.

Jealous of everyone and everything. This woman cannot be happy for anyone.

Mean, mean right to her very bones. The most hateful things I have ever heard have all come from her mouth.

Manipulative. She makes up stories to illicit attention and sympathy. She focuses this on one friend in particular (the friend with a savior complex).

A better person would probably feel sympathy for this mess of a person; I am just so exhausted by it all that I can’t. She is the toxic sludge of human beings and I avoid her like a plague…