Hello! Okay, so my friend started dating my toxic ex a month ago. He makes fun of me, calls me names, etc. She doesn’t do anything about it, and he’s caused me a lot of mental stuff. It’s straining our relationship and I’m feeling more distant from her.
#1
Hi there! So, it’s not enough info to form an opinion. We only know that you call your ex toxic, there’s no story behind this statement to explain the finer details. The only thing that clear is that your friend obviously does not agree with your judgement. We don’t see any other side of the story but yours. I am sorry that you are hurt by they decision to be together, but cannot tell if there’s an AH anywhere in the situation.
3points
#2
I have a similar story so I can relate. My friend is starting to avoid me and my girlfriend, up to the point where someone told us she was trash talking us. So you should be mad.
2points
#3
NTA I don't think I could handle any friend dating one of my exes. Especially if they knew how my ex treated me. Sometimes you just have to let people go. Hopefully she figures it out but you can't let it bring you down. If you matter to her she'll show it. Otherwise bye.
2points
#4
No your not the ah. Just maybe ask her to not invite your ex to friend outings or something.
1point
#5
NTA. Your friend should NOPE right out of that relationship too! She should listen to you, after all, you've been in that position before.
1point
#6
NTA. Not very nice that she chose to date him, especially since she's your friend and I assume she knew of your relationship with him and the consequences.
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