Hey Pandas, Are You, Or Have You, Ever Been In A Relationship?

I’m in a relationship with my boyfriend who lives in England. He’s the greatest person I’ve ever known, he makes me so happy.

I would love to add a meme to describe my answer. But yes in a few. One bad one that was good but ended badly. But from all I have learned something valuable. Ill a*s the meme below

Not currently, never before, but maybe soon :D

No

No, but I want to be, but probably never will. Always have been treated as unlovable and like a robot and put into situations which attaining a relationship is impossible. Also, I'm attracted to people differently than the majority experiences it.

yep! actually surprisingly in one rn :))

Yep! I’m in a really great relationship right now! I’m so lucky that’s the small choices I’ve made in my life has led me to my boyfriend! We recently celebrated our 1 year anniversary :)

Never… I just got rejected :/

Yes, in fact my wedding with good was just last week 🤯🤯🤯

I was in a relationship for one day. She dumped me via her friend, and her personality did a full 180. She went from being nice, to stereotypical mean girl. My best friend now has a crush on her.

No and….no. I’m not ready to date. I’m only in middle school, it just seems ridiculous and unnecessary right now. No offense to other middle schoolers who are dating ofc. Also I don’t really want to date until I’ve figured out my sexuality a bit better because I very rarely get crushes but do want to eventually be in a relationship.

Yes, technically I'm in my very first relationship (I'm 28F). It's good, but dare I say, it's not...amazing? He's funny, a bit loud, loving (even while drunk/buzzed, which is rare), doesn't smoke, has a good job, etc...It's just that his past relationships were so a*****e and bad that his mental state has been severely traumatized. We don't really go on many dates or go out unless he's invited by friends. He doesn't do spontaneous acts, such as gifts or surprising me at work (this one can be overlooked because my breaks are random; he did show up three times, twice before we called it official, and once for a kiss. He also works/lives about 30+ minutes away and I don't drive, so it's understandable.). He doesn't really like holding hands while out in public because it makes him insecure, though this in turn makes me insecure when we don't because it makes me feel like I'm just...there as a friend, not a partner (he's gotten a tiny bit better with this, and holds my hand in the car/home).

Now, keep in mind: I'm not holding any of his trauma/mental health against him (I, too, have a pretty bad mental status, but for different reasons). He has been there for me, and I love him to pieces, but I wish it was...more. Personally, it's also difficult for me to talk to him about this because I do understand and I am patient with him; I've also learned I get pretty emotional while talking about deep/sentitive topics, which makes me feel guilty because I'm not trying to feel small or make others feel bad.

Sorry if this turned into a rant, and I know I haven't put everything because it is a good relationship, and I am happy with him, but I had no where else to put this, so forgive me.