Okay so im 17 years old. Non Binary and Pansexual. I use both bathrooms at school and Im a highschool senior. Anyways last wendsday I kissed a girl i liked in the bathroom and she kissed me back and then clung to me. Then friday she was like i dont know if i feel the same. I was like okay, thats fine i respect that. Then later that day she came up to me and yelled at me. She was accusing me of telling people in the school we were making out in the bathroom. (I NEVER SAID THAT) Then she walked away before I could respond. So this monday I confronted her about it. I was a little harsh but i was RESPECTFUL about it. I said hey, next time beofore you jump to conclusions and assume stuff can you talk to me. Then her and her friend atarted laughing and talking S*** about me and texting crap about me. Tuseday I tried to talk it out again with her because she was being petty. That conversation went okay. Yesterday she wanted to have a mediated convo with the counsler so i agrreed. It ended up with us screaming at eachother. And I was Done with her fakeness, lies ans BS. So i said im not your friend,dont talk to me,keep my name out of ur mouth and if i hear you keep talking s*** about me im going to expose you to the school about lying that you got pregnant and had to get an abortion.I will also tell everyone that you told me you got tazed by the police and sent to a mental hospital because you were chasing your mom with a knife. I then walked out and heard her screaming at the counsler im going to beat there ass. Im probs an inch or two taller then her but shes big. So she would beat me in a fight. I go to a school where the majority of people are black or hispanic. Only like 7 white people including myself and her.So people are not afraid to throw hands there. So when I told my guy friends and girl friends they got mad and said they would beat her A** for me if it came to that and make sure she did not put her hands on me.15 mins later she came running through two double doors at me and two principals had to hold her back. But 3 of my friends 2 girls and a guy, dropped there stuff in front of me and where bout to fight her. But the principals dragged her back through the door way while she was kicking and screaming at the top of her lungs. she got taken away in a cop car. Last night I found out she filled a complaint aginst me to the school saying I forced her to kiss me. I then talked to my parents about it and they were like okay maybe she was uncomfortable but why would she wait till after our argument to say anything. I think shes just trying to get me in trouble. I have a Meeting tomorrow with the principal about what happened. (yes they know shes crazy) so i think they will believe me. But What do I do. When she comes back to school what should I do to keep myslef safe from her. ( i allready have permission from my family to beat her a** if need be.) But I dont want to do that. Im not a violent person. Am I in the wrong? I know I could have handled the situation better. But PLEASE I need Advice.
#1
Oml, that was a lot wow...
No youre not in the wrong, you were respectful in your approach whilst she was crazier than a squirrel on coffee nuts. You did the right thing ending friendships with her and you may wanna file a complaint or restraining order against her, 'cause if shes crazy enough to fight you in broad daylight who knows what else shell do
My school had a recent incident similar to this lol also
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#2
Whatever you do. DO NOT FIGHT BACK. In this instance, since sheโs getting law involved. Itโs going to be hard, it really is, but youโve got this! Keep to yourself, youโve got your crew looking out for you. She really needs to move on, this is so ridiculous of her (if she still tries to search you out then honestly ask her to marry you โABSOLUTE GLITCH IN THE MATRIXโ) that would be hard af to ask and it could go two ways: YES! Or โโฆ. Exe.โ
Ok maybe not the last part, but you have a core that cares about you, including all of us pandas. Keep us posted! -The World Is Not A Cold Dead Place.
3points
#3
From the look of things and from what i understand, try to not be alone as much as you can for until you graduate. It's better to be as safe as you can. Always have some self-defense stuff ready if you can.
From the look of things that girl is pretty (sorry for the language) bat s**t crazy.
Avoid her as much as you can and if not, nip it from the bud.
Sorry can't really give a pretty sound advice, different part of the world and whatnot, but just here if needed a stranger to rant off to.
1point