Hi! I'm pan and ace (Although I think I might be specifically orchidsexual or fraysexual). My stories aren't too interesting, but here they are:
1- The first person I came out to was one of my theater friends who I know is part of the LGBTQ community and they completely accepted me and supported me! I came out to them over text btw.
2- I came out to another one of my friends at a sleepover and it started a long conversation about our sexualities and how we plan to come out to people (She's abro).
3- I've also sort of come out to a couple other friends just by pointing out things that are "pan" or saying "because I'm pan" and stuff like that. Also I was doing a roleplay with some school friends and I said my character was pan because someone else said her character was lesbian and she's lesbian in real life so I thought "hey, that's a good idea".
I haven't come out to my parents yet but I'm planning to once I really figure things out. Y'all are valid and amazing! Even if you haven't figured yourself out yet, you will, and I promise things will get better π³βππ³βπ