My grandparents are some of my favorite people in the whole world, I want to come out to them so I'm not hiding things from them. I'm not sure if they're homophobic, once they told me "you know [guy]? He got married! TO ANOTHER GUY! Isn't that weird?" and im not sure if they meant it's weird because they didn't know he was gay or if it was because two boys got married. She didn't really say anything negative about them though. I also want to come out as genderqueer, and theres a big chance they won't believe that, as I am a very feminine looking person. How do I come out..?
#1
I would tell them in a note because that way they can't interpret you with questions. I think it's better to just tell them sooner than later because it's never good to keep secrets from someone you love. I know that it is bad to keep important Information to yourself because I have kept my depression from my parents and friends for almost three years.
2points
#2
ask them if they support you if u were (this sexuality) and then if they support you tell them I hope the grandma does most grandmas are nice!
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