Hey Pandas, How Would You Deal With A Bully? (Closed)

I let them tell me what to do and make me feel miserable. I hide my emotions from the bullies, and then go cry alone, so they don't know that they hurt me.

I would grow up and laugh at their miserable adult life. For some reason it works more often than not

Punch them

If they insulted me or were just being a jerk I would give the peace sign with both hards while walking away to look like a total hippie and then turn my fingers around to give them the bird.

It depends on what they do. I normally get called a horse girl so I'll just be like "Ok and? Is that your problem? Is that my problem? Is it a problem at all? You just seem like the kinda kid that is afraid of them anyways. I don't have time for people who don't have anything better to do other than bully others. Get a hobby." I think that works on basically any direct insult.

Bullies choose targets that they are not scared of. I won't go into detail as I put it all on a previous post. But I gave them a reason to be scared of me.

The truth is, there are limited ways of dealing with bullies:

The simplest (but also often the hardest) is to "turn 'em purple" as my uncle would say. Beat them up! This, obviously isn't possible for everyone.

The next is the 'wait it out' method. Wait until they find a new target or find them a new target. I don't like this method because you are knowingly going to allow them to cause someone else pain and there is no guarantee that they will move on to someone else.

Another way is the 'mommy' method, this however relies on the moral strength of the bully's mother. School teachers, the police, even your parents will make things worse. However, an anonymous note to the bully's mother, if she is a good person, can have an amazing effect.

Next there is the 'boredom' method. Just act as though you are just bored of their shite (which you probably already are). Eventually, your lack of diverse reactions will lead them to boredom. (this method is the least guaranteed).

Finally there is the 'Move away' method. Change school, town, county, state, etc. Some a-holes consider it a cowards way out, that's BS! It takes a lot more guts to start afresh.