Please try not to be too pretentious.
#1
this might be kinda depressing but...
even if you try so hard to do something, put money into it, stay up countless hours to do it, put utmost effort into that something, spend any second of free time on it, and literally do anything in your power to try to achieve it, you still may not get it.
i know.
but at least when you try your hardest and fail, you will have the closure that you at least TRIED. so don't give up on something, unless you've tried your utmost hardest.
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#2
also, (sorry i posted my other post before i could add this)
sadness isn't bad. its your brain's way of processing negative scenarios that occur in life.
let yourself be sad, and let yourself heal
hope this reached someone who needed to hear that
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