Hey Pandas, What Is Something You Are Or Were Dead Set On? (Closed)

Freedom? Wind on my face, ocean air, forest smell. I need to get out of the city.

I'll go first, I really want a cat. Not just any cat this one specific cat. the only problem is that I may have a couple of overdue assignments that are holding me back.....

I'm 100% sure that all my problems and mental health issues will magically vanish once I've moved to London

A coffee cup that fills itself. More seriously though, it was keeping my dad out of the hospice center so he could spend his last days at home with his grandchildren. It was my mums wish (she was a CNA for years and saw the toll that being away from familiar surroundings when in bad health caused). He made until the morning after her memorial service and it was one of the brightest, happiest days that he had at the end.

Move to the countryside and live in a house! Mission accomplished in 15 days! yay! :)

1. Don't get married/ get married platonicly

2. Housemates

3. Pets

4. Movie nights with my house mates

5. An aroace pride flag in my room (haha ill get my own bedroom! )

I'm dead set on learning not to fill the gaps with "stuff". I just decluttered my home and I don't want to go shopping again to get a rush of temporary satisfaction. I want to learn to fill the gaps with mindfulness and gratitude, not the pressing superficial desire to own another object that won't fix my inner self.

Retirement and living simple on a sailboat! Seeing the world, learning new cultures,family can fly where I am for their vacations. Always been my dream!!

I was terribly bad with routine and order in my life. I was set on changing that. It took me a few years to get where I'm at today. I know that if I wasn't as dead set to change this, I'd still be the same.

When i was 5 or 6 i was dead set on never having a husband. I even wrote a song about it (not a good one but still song) for my piano teacher. All the adults who knew me thought that just meant i never wanted to get married. Nope, I'm just fruity

I am dead set on moving to UK. I don't know when or how I'm going about it, exactly, but I will.

Human society to go in the right direction

I’m gonna write books. I’ve always wanted to be a writer, even since I was little.

A few life paths:

1. Go to Chicago, attend Chicago Uni, find a girlfriend, graduate with Medicine degree, move to Toronto, come back to Chicago.
2. Go to Toronto, attend Toronto Uni, graduate med school, find a partner, die before we get to marry
3. Stay in Australia, go to Uni Melb, graduate med school, go to Toronto for fellowship, find a partner in Canada where LGBTQ+ people and relationships are more accepted and bring them back to Australia if they agree

Don’t ask why

A dog wanted one all my life.