Hey Pandas, What’s The Worst Thing Someone’s Done To You? (Closed)

Me, my parents, and my uncle went to a food festival in my province. I am afraid of wasps and there was LOTS because of the sweet food there. My mom already thinks it’s a dumb fear and eventually yells at me and said something like this.

“Will you STOP CRYING? Ugh your Uncle is embarrassed to be around you! You know what you’re a CRYBABY. If you don’t stop nobody in your new school will like you because nobody likes a crybaby!”

Consequently something switched in my head and it was hard for me to cry that year for some reason. Until I snapped at least.

And yes when I get angry or almost cry at school I never tell my parents in fear of punishment.

I had a great career and some racist lied to HR about my work ethic and I was fired!

Someone broke up with me on my birthday

When I was a little (like 9-10) I was really into gardening. I wanted to grow cilantro but the seeds spilled and so we swept them off and into the grass (we thought they would not grow) and a couple weeks later it started growing. Me and my brother (who was almost two at the time) were going to pull them up and move them. Well there was slabs of rocks on both sides of the thing and I had lifted it up and it was sitting in the air on its side and I strictly told my brother not to touch them and ofc he did not listen and it ended falling and his toenail popped off his big toe. He went to the doctor and all was good with him and I had been grounded. I woke up the next morning and noticed the shovel and muddy shoes at the door. My older had ripped up and shredded all of my plants and dug them up. She also ripped my garden fence apart and I was so upset I have never cried so hard before and I will never forget that feeling of absolute dread of that whole week. I know I did wrong but I refused to speak up due to thinking I was only going into deeper trouble.

I suffer from low blood pressure, and I get really bad headaches and sometimes I faint. One time, I fainted at school because I was standing for a long time, it was a really hot day, and we weren’t allowed our water bottles in that particular room. One girl told everyone that I had epilepsy, even though we barely talked and what I had was not epilepsy. Later on, people kept asking me if I was alright to do things like sport because of my “epilepsy”. I confronted her but she didn’t care. I can’t believe she went around telling people stuff about me (especially medical conditions) that she should keep to herself even if it was true.

This one idiot poured bleach over my 12 notebooks with 700 pages full of notes of 12 different subjects. That **#^%#%## did get suspended but you can't imagine how much I cried over my melted notes :( especially because the examinations were approaching.

My girlfriend of 10 years told me she was going to take our baby to spend the afternoon with her mother (who lived a couple miles away). Instead; she snatched our daughter and moved 250 miles away. She went to live with her new girlfriend after I spent the last 10 year providing for her and the last year taking care of our premature baby.

I was forced to move near her to see my daughter. Gave up my beautiful townhome that cost $1100 a month and move in with my parents. One year later the average one bedroom apartment in my new city costs $2400. I’m disabled and now trapped in my parents home. I was abused my narcissist for ten years. That’s makes my brain surgeries and 10 knee surgeries look like nothing.

I’m not sure if this is the worst thing, but when I was 10-12 I was suffering from Trichotillomania and 2 anxiety disorders. My mom took me to a psychologist (?) who apparently specialized in trichotillomania.

We never really clicked the way I did with other therapists and I never really felt comfortable around her.

One day, she tries to use hypnosis on me to treat me. It made me extremely uncomfortable but she kept trying to make me do it. I started crying eventually and my mom took me home. I never went back.

Just recently, I learned from my latest therapist that hypnosis was not an approved method to treat trichotillomania, and I was in so much shock that I zoned out for a minute.

Former roommate held a knife to my throat on my birthday

1st husband of 4 yrs alienated my child from me. Spent 25 years and endless resources til I realized my child was just like him. Broke all ties, broke my heart, especially since my current husband has carried this since the tot was 2 yrs old.

One person I know kept bullying someone, then crying and saying that person was bullying him each time a teacher came. Then the bully said something about other persons family which caused the other person to punch him and other person got suspended for quite sometime

When I was 5 years old, my cousin took me with her to the Swinging Ship ride. I didn't want to go. We sat on the very top. I cried and screamed so much they had to stop the ship. 20 years later, it's the only phobia I can't get over. I can't even climb a step ladder. Thanks a lot.

Similar to another post on here. I wasn't dumped on my birthday, but they day we broke up I had been having a particularly stressfull couple of weeks. My sister had been to the E.R. multiple times and could barely stand up, and my mother had been so stressed out she was taking all of her anxiety out on me. They knew all of this and even after we had been dating for 9 months they decided they could not deal with my emotions and left. They're reasoning for breaking up was just basically projecting all of the things they did to me but apparently I was doing it. (ex: putting other down, not respecting boundries) They also said they lost interest and a day later I was suprised to see them flirting with my best friend. I'm glad we broke up I'm just mad that I dated a Narcissist.