Many moms complain that their bodies don't bounce back after having a baby. While some make peace with it, others go to great lengths to fit into their old clothes. They might diet, exercise, or even opt for plastic surgery. That's the route one woman decided she'd take, even before becoming a mom.
She says she made up her mind many years ago that she'd get a "mommy package" once all her kids were born. Basically, a boob job and tummy tuck. The woman spent years saving $15,000 for the surgery, only for the money to vanish. When it emerged her husband had emptied her savings, all hell broke loose.
Imagine saving $15,000 for something you truly want and need...
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Only for your husband to "steal" the money because he felt he deserved it more
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She provided quite a bit more info when prompted by netizens
Many immediately took the wife's side
"What an idiot I am": It seems she had a lightbulb moment while reading people's comments
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"Realistic timeline set": She provided an update a day later, revealing her next steps
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Many people were invested in the woman's journey and showed their support
The woman gave a final update a year later, and a lot had changed
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The "Mommy Makeover" plastic surgery procedure explained...
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Many women struggle to get back their pre-pregnancy body after having kids. And some might opt to go under the knife to achieve it.
In the world of plastic surgery, a “Mommy Makeover” combines surgical and/or non-surgical cosmetic enhancement procedures specifically tailored to get a woman closer to the physical state she was in before she gave birth. These can include body contouring plastic surgery procedures, facelift surgery, breast enhancement, and other options.
Experts say it's not a miracle cure for weight loss, and women should be at their goal weight when undergoing the procedure.
"Mommy Makeover plastic surgery will flatten the anterior abdominal contour (the front of the tummy) by taking away excess skin and removing the bulge by bringing your stomach muscles together. Your breasts will also be lifted, with or without increasing their size, depending on whether or not an augmentation is done," explains the Plastic Surgery Centre site. "This won’t however affect the shape and contour of other parts of your body such as your arms, back, flanks (love handles) and thighs."
Experts suggest waiting at least six months after giving birth, and a minimum of three months after completing breastfeeding, before having the surgery. "This is because hormones affect elasticity and skin tone, so you need to give time for your skin to retract and cover," explains the site.
They also warn against having a tummy tuck at the same time as a C-section. Your skin will be stretched, making it difficult for surgeons to judge how much skin to resect. "Some of the skin will continue to retract over the next few months as the hormones in your body change," note the Plastic Surgery Centre's experts.
When it comes to healing time, it takes around four to six weeks. You'll need to rest a lot and limit your movements. "You can sit with your child on the couch, or with them on your lap (as long as they are calm)," suggests the centre. "It also helps if you go down to your child’s level (i.e bending down to speak to them), so that you feel less of a need to bring them up to yours."
Before considering a "Mommy Makeover," you should know that it's not without risks... A few moms haven't lived to tell the tale.
"While the benefits can be significant, the procedures carry inherent risks such as bleeding, infection, and complications related to anesthesia," warns plastic surgeon, Dr. Thomas Jeneby. "Given the stakes, it’s crucial for prospective patients to weigh these risks carefully."
Jeneby's website lists the following as major risks: pulmonary embolism, surgical-site infection, blood clots, hematoma, and seroma.
The expert says even though it's rare not to survive the surgery, it has happened. Hence, it's important to choose an experienced, board-certified plastic surgeon and have a candid discussion about your medical history, expectations, and the potential dangers.
"It’s also vital for patients to understand that their lifestyle, overall health, and adherence to post-surgery care instructions play crucial roles in mitigating risks and ensuring the best possible outcomes," Jeneby adds.
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