Whenever I ask my partner what he remembers most about when we "met" online, he says it was my photos. In particular, he had referenced a photo of me doing a handstand on the Golden Gate Bridge in his first message (which I still have saved, 3 years later). He lived in San Francisco, and was visiting Miami where I was living at the time. That photo was a conversation-starter that lead to a whirlwind romance, me moving across the country, and us being stupidly in love 3 years later still.
Modern day romance is all about online dating (app dating…?). In an era where “selfie” is a word in the dictionary, and people love to hate them (even though they still “like” them), pictures of you are the most important part of your dating app profile.
This Valentine’s Day, when we are reminded of love or the need to find it, I thought I’d help share these tips to ensure everyone can have swipe-right worthy photos.
As they say, a photo is worth a thousand words. And when a photo is all you’re able to give, make sure it says exactly what you want it to! (If you're looking for a great photo-editing tool, I highly recommend PicsArt.) And Happy almost Valentine's Day!
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1. Conversation Starters
Choose a photo that helps tell a story about you. If you love surfing, have your friend take a striking photo of you with your surfboard post-surf on the beach. After all, what’s more beautiful than you with beachy hair, and hotter than holding a surfboard in your swimwear, all while glowing in the sun? Make sure to focus on you with something you love as the backdrop—like this gorgeous travel photo.
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2. Show Your Happy!
Don’t even fake it. Just do it. Choose photos from your happiest moments, or ask friends to help you capture them while you’re out. A smile always wins. Make it natural and own your happy.
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3. Killer Gaze
We’re all really picky, so this one gets a little confusing. But basically, boys, don’t look! Girls, give us your best smize. But one thing is for sure, don’t cover them up with shades.
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4. Be Natural
Pass on the flash and go all natural! Try shooting during the two golden hours each day. Also, while it’s okay to play with the brightness and contrast, no filters, please. It’s okay in your social media feeds, but on a dating app, it’s noticeable and out of place.
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5. Style Yourself
Wear color. Be yourself. Don’t get too dressed up. You’re trying to find someone you want to be with every day, so show them that. If you can add multiple photos, try to mix-up your style in every picture to show your versatility and amazing fashion sense.
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6. Make It About You!
You’re the focus. No group shots. No awkward crops (please). Just naturally beautiful you.
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