Wow. That’s seriously messed up. You should sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel. Communication will help fix it or you’ll know you at least tried if it ends. Maybe try something like: It bothers me when you (insert in law issue here) or I feel like your mother/family is dismissive of our family and when you stay quiet, I feel (insert feeling). If he argues, show specific examples of his bad behavior. You’re not the bad guy for being upset but you should never say anything like that to your daughter. I know it’s tough but when you bring a kid into it it just upsets and stresses them. You have to be the mature one here because obviously your husband’s family can’t handle that much. You don’t have to take my advice if you don’t wanna though.
