The rights that women have now such as the right to vote, the right to get a divorce, the right to drive or get an education were fought for for a long time. And even though technically it may seem that most modern countries guarantee equal rights for both men and women, the female population often sees a different reality, especially in how they are viewed in society.
The perfect example of this is a TikTok user who went viral both on TikTok and Twitter for all the wrong reasons. He tried to explain that independent and strong women who are beautiful are still single because of feminism. But the TikToker got so many views not because people agreed with him; on the contrary, they were baffled that these kinds of men still exist.
Man on TikTok claims that he found out why even beautiful women are single and his explanation is that they were corrupted by feminism
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A TikTok user who uses the nickname heartbreaknino617 made a video to explain why even beautiful women who present themselves as “bad b*****s,” as he puts it, are single today. The man thinks that the answer is simple. According to him, the root lies in feminism.
The video on TikTok was watched 2.5M times and when Twitter user @princessjahadd shared this video there with the caption “... this scary asf”, it was seen by 6.7M people. But people absolutely disagreed with the TikToker.
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Heartbreaknino617 doesn’t have a lot of videos on his page but they all revolve around giving advice to women, teaching them to be obedient and do what men tell them to do in exchange for providing for them. It almost seems too absurd to be true and maybe it is a joke; however, it's not funny.
In the video that went viral on Twitter too, the TikToker explains that women have had a thought put into their heads by feminism that they are the best and heavenly gifts from God to bless the Earth. Which is completely wrong. Actually, this is the most popular misconception about feminism, which is that women think they are better than men.
Heartbreaknino617 says that women who call themselves queens will never be one to him as they are not his mother and won't show unconditional love
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If you look at the Merriam-Webster dictionary, it will say that feminism is “belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes expressed especially through organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests.”
The key word here is equality, so if some women do think they are better than others, putting the blame on feminism is inaccurate.
The TikToker continues to belittle women by saying that they are not queens, because they are not his mother and will not love him unconditionally. This statement is problematic because nobody will ever love you like your mother does. Also, it is expected that romantic relationships and relationships between parents and children are different. So using this argument to devalue a woman’s self-esteem is pointless.
He also claims that because men are the providers, women should be submissive and do as men say because they are the dominant ones
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Then heartbreaknino617 goes into explaining that because he pays for the woman when they go out and buys her things that she wants, it’s her job to do as he says. It sounds kind of aggressive when he says it in the video, and requiring obedience from a person because you gave them material things seems like guilt-tripping, which is manipulative.
For the finale, the TikToker concludes that women are the problem and calls them delusional
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What is more, he tells that he is not submissive, but dominant; however, he expects submissiveness from women. He believes that he has to be like that because he says it himself, “Then you go be with that nice guy and you end up cheating on him or leaving him, ‘cause he’s weak. He don’t make you feel nothing.”
Here you can watch the video that went viral on Twitter
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When the video went viral on Twitter, people had a lot to say. Many of them guessed that the TikTok user was hurt by someone and now has a skewed interpretation of relationships. Others were not so concerned with why he is acting like he is, but rather noticed the curtains that were not hung on a rod and that they should belong in the bathroom.
And these are some of the reactions Twitter users had after hearing the TikToker's speech
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Other people were actually trying to go through heartbreaknino617's arguments and demonstrate that they don't hold up. It could be possible that it's only some anger speaking or it really is a troll account, but people didn't find making fun of strong single women entertaining at all.
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Some Twitter users really hated the part about buying shoes and then getting submissiveness in return. They had the feeling that it could be signs of an abuser, also having in mind the tone that he said it in.
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Not only Twitter users were exasperated by what they've seen. TikTok comments were also flooded with some witty reactions as people couldn't believe that this is a real person speaking how he truly feels.
The video was popular on TikTok too and the comments are also quite entertaining
What do you think of the TikToker's speech and reasoning? Did you find any of his arguments convincing? Let us know your thoughts in the comments!