Some people just can’t let go—whether it’s their ex, their high school glory days, or that one favorite mug they’ve glued back together five times. There’s something oddly comforting about holding on, even when it makes no sense. But sometimes, people take “attachment issues” to a whole new level.
One woman found this out after adopting a sweet dog who came with more emotional baggage than a reality show contestant. Turns out, the hardest part of adopting him wasn’t house training — it was dealing with the humans who couldn’t stop acting like he was still theirs.
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There are many ways to become a pet parent and one of the most common is adoption
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That's how this woman got her 7 year old beagle – she adopted him from the family that no longer could house it
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Only she didn't anticipate said family to have such a hard time letting go of the dog
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Months after the adoption they reached out and started scolding the woman for doing things "the wrong way"
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To get rid of them, she decided to ask them to cover pet's "boarding bill", which she knew they couldn't do
Some time ago, the OP adopted a 7-year-old beagle from an old lady, who could no longer take care of him. The adoption process went smoothly, so the woman thought the dog's ownership would too.
For a while it was, until one random day, the previous owner’s daughter found her on Instagram to express the horror the family experienced after learning of the dog's name change from Thomas to Lucius.
With that, she also started asking questions about the dog and got offended when the answers weren’t what she wanted. Basically, the previous owners were terrified that the new owner dared to change anything about the dog, from the vet’s office to the food type. And so, they decided to make the OP’s life hell.
The family started calling the author a few times a week, asking stuff about the dog. This annoyed the woman so much that she ended up blocking their number. So, they drove up to her gate with the intention of taking back the dog, which the original poster in no way was going to do.
Yet, she decided to play with these insufferable people a little. The OP listed down all expenses she had over 3 months and gave them the bill, knowing they could not afford it. This caused the same daughter, who reached out in the first place, to start blowing up social media with stories about how the author is the jerk who holds their beloved pet hostage.
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This drama online didn’t affect the original poster that much – she knows the dog is hers legally. Yet, she kind of feels a little bit icky morally. After all, playing around like that with the bill may not be the kindest thing one can do.
At the same time, they were constantly breathing down her neck about every little decision about the dog, which wasn’t the kindest thing either. They made the choice to give him up, so they don’t really have a say in how the dog is raised, especially when they see that he’s not being mistreated, just that some small details have changed.
Plus, changing dog ownership often can be detrimental to its well-being. The bond between people and dogs tends to become an intense one, sometimes even equal to the one between the mother and the infant. It’s because it releases oxytocin, the so-called love hormone, for both parties during their interactions.
Thus, rehoming a dog can be borderline traumatizing for them. Trauma in dogs can manifest in various ways, for example, loss of appetite or overeating; withdrawal; destructive chewing; excessive barking, to name a few. And the thing with dogs is that you cannot really explain the changes to them, unlike what you can do for a human, which makes canines’ trauma even more harmful.
It also makes the old owners’ behavior in the story beyond odd. They knew what they were doing by giving up the dog, so their acting out just shows their lack of social awareness. That’s why netizens firmly told the OP that she is doing nothing wrong here – putting annoying people in their place doesn’t make her out to be a jerk.
Do you agree with netizens’ opinions? What would you have done in the OP’s place? Share all this in the comments!
Netizens reassured her that she shouldn't feel bad for her actions, as coming up with a scheme to get annoying folks out of her hair doesn't make her a jerk
