Hi, I would really appreciate your advise on this.
I am divorced with three children. My partner is separated and has two children.
My partner and I have been together for almost four years and I have not meet his kids. He has meet mine and have in several occasions been over for dinner and other outings with us. I have many times extended the invitation for him to bring his chdren as well. I decided to ask a year ago if ha has told his kids about myself or the kids and I was told that he didn't as he was afraid they would look at him differently. This left me confused so I asked him to explain, I am black ,he is not. So I asked if race was the issue, and he said ñò. Then went on to say its complicated.
He has since said he has told his children but I still haven't meet them. I am I missing something?
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How old are the kids? When I was young I was a bit selfish and didn’t want a “new mom”. Had my dad dated someone, I would’ve been a bit upset. After the age of like 14 though I encouraged him to date. It could be something similar of just not wanting to upset his kids. On the other hand, however, y’all have been dating for a long time now; he definitely should set up a meeting with you and his kids. If he truly sees forever with you, it’s something that needs to happen.
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