Cultural diversity is a beautiful thing, and learning about traditions in other countries is always an enriching, eye-opening experience.
However, some acceptable customs in some areas of the world may be peculiar and nonsensical in others. A Quora thread tackled this, asking, “What is normal in your country but weird in the rest of the world?”
People from all over the globe chimed in, from Iceland to Uzbekistan, the UK, and Egypt, among many others. Discussions touched on mundane matters such as winter attire and more serious topics like arranged marriages and the blurred lines between patriotism and nationalism.
These are interesting reads, especially if you’re perpetually curious about the world around you. If you have unique traits from your culture, share them in the comments!
#1
The Netherlands here.
When we greet someone, we give each other three kisses on the cheek.
Normally, we have a calender with people's birthdays in our bathroom.
We actually celebrate second Easter day and second Christmas day, and we're working on the third.
On work and school days we bring our own lunch with us from home. Usually a slice of bread with cheese, or Nutella, or peanutbutter or chocolate sprinkles. A slice of bread with peanutbutter AND chocolate sprinkles is also an acceptable lunch.
We cycle everywhere.
When it's about 15 degrees Celsius outside, we'll wear shorts.
When we celebrate our birthday with the family, we sit in a circle.
We eat dinner at 6 o'clock.
In the summer we flee to foreign countries to escape our shitty weather. The locals go out, the tourists come in.
We’re mad about iceskating. We try to skate on, for example, the canals and the lakes every winter, even if the ice is still too thin and there’s a real chance we’ll fall through and die.
Flevoland is a province of the Netherlands we made ourselves. It used to be sea.
The Netherlands is so flat the Gods can use it as a pool table.
When someone has their birthday, we don’t only congratulate them, but also all their friends and family.
…Don’t get me started on Sinterklaas, the absolute weirdest thing we Dutchies do.
Apart from partying on the canals in orange on the king’s birthday.
We’re very tall, and we even have the tallest average height of the world! Dutch guys are 183 centimeters on average, and Dutch women 169. I am 1.80m myself (5′11″ I believe). I don’t notice this much back home, but in other countries I’m a literal giant.
We're bicycle crazy. We have about 22.5 million bicycles for 17 million people. My family is especially bicycle mad. We have 10 bicycles for 4 people. My dad has a station bike, a short distance bike, a mountainbike and a race bike; my mum has a bike you can fold, a short distance bike and a long distance bike; my sister has a bike in Amsterdam and a bike at home, and I just have my one bike. We put kids on bikes when they're about 3 years old.
The nieuwjaarsduik (the new year's dive): In the morning of the first day of January, the Dutch join each other on the beach and run into the sea to greet the new year. I have to be honest, I've never even been on the beach on January first, let alone in the sea. It's just too cold. Thousands of people do this though and a lot of people I know do too.
Our houses usually have very big windows, but we rarely close the curtains. It is rude to stare or peek in though, however tempting it may be.
When we greet someone, we give each other three kisses on the cheek.
Normally, we have a calender with people's birthdays in our bathroom.
We actually celebrate second Easter day and second Christmas day, and we're working on the third.
On work and school days we bring our own lunch with us from home. Usually a slice of bread with cheese, or Nutella, or peanutbutter or chocolate sprinkles. A slice of bread with peanutbutter AND chocolate sprinkles is also an acceptable lunch.
We cycle everywhere.
When it's about 15 degrees Celsius outside, we'll wear shorts.
When we celebrate our birthday with the family, we sit in a circle.
We eat dinner at 6 o'clock.
In the summer we flee to foreign countries to escape our shitty weather. The locals go out, the tourists come in.
We’re mad about iceskating. We try to skate on, for example, the canals and the lakes every winter, even if the ice is still too thin and there’s a real chance we’ll fall through and die.
Flevoland is a province of the Netherlands we made ourselves. It used to be sea.
The Netherlands is so flat the Gods can use it as a pool table.
When someone has their birthday, we don’t only congratulate them, but also all their friends and family.
…Don’t get me started on Sinterklaas, the absolute weirdest thing we Dutchies do.
Apart from partying on the canals in orange on the king’s birthday.
We’re very tall, and we even have the tallest average height of the world! Dutch guys are 183 centimeters on average, and Dutch women 169. I am 1.80m myself (5′11″ I believe). I don’t notice this much back home, but in other countries I’m a literal giant.
We're bicycle crazy. We have about 22.5 million bicycles for 17 million people. My family is especially bicycle mad. We have 10 bicycles for 4 people. My dad has a station bike, a short distance bike, a mountainbike and a race bike; my mum has a bike you can fold, a short distance bike and a long distance bike; my sister has a bike in Amsterdam and a bike at home, and I just have my one bike. We put kids on bikes when they're about 3 years old.
The nieuwjaarsduik (the new year's dive): In the morning of the first day of January, the Dutch join each other on the beach and run into the sea to greet the new year. I have to be honest, I've never even been on the beach on January first, let alone in the sea. It's just too cold. Thousands of people do this though and a lot of people I know do too.
Our houses usually have very big windows, but we rarely close the curtains. It is rude to stare or peek in though, however tempting it may be.
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#2
Naked children playing around “on the street”, topless women (much more braless, first), long haired men, and well accepted “trans-women” or feminized men (that we call Mahū, or several other ways).
I come from a place called Polynesia, which is a collection of little islands and atolls, as large as Europe in scale, spread in the Pacific Ocean. This place had been colonized by several Europeans, around the 18th century, but there are many books that were written since and some behaviors still persist. And it’s good, very good.
In fact, there was no such thing as body-shaming, and when the first Europeans came there, they were mainly shocked by how free the population in Tahiti was. They were so shocked by the sexual freedom in there that they wanted to make forbidden the traditional dance that we fortunately continue pridefully today. And we have no problems teaching 5yo children to dance “as sexy” (because it is not sexual!) as this beautiful girl right there:
Although we are in the 21st century, now, when I grew up on one of those savage atolls (by savage I mean isolated and natural), I was mostly naked, but I can still see some little kids playing naked in the most isolated parts of Polynesia. Some women still live topless and the traditional dance even encourage this behavior, this lifestyle, if I can say. Also, men are free to wear whatever length of hair they want. Really, it’s even part of the culture. Longer your hair are, for a man, closer he is to his culture, Polynesian (women here love to free their long hair!).
Oh, and, something that most of the developed world had apparently a hard time to accept: feminized men. Guess what? The persons who tend to act like women while being born with male genitals are part of the society, here. They’re even considered as a whole, with their specific name, and they are well appreciated amongst women’s activities. This approval is not exclusive to Polynesia though, it happens in other places in South-Asia, like the Philippines, or in some places in South-America as well, like Brazil.
Sexuality is… clearly taken differently than many other countries, if I can say. Polynesians have a history of respect towards the nature of things and especially the Body. Its nature. Our statues still have phallic representations or our men still dance half naked (where it’s funny to see how Europeans (this happened again last week!) react to our uninhibited dances).
By the way, for those who don’t know, the word Tattoo comes from the Tahitian language (Tattoo comes from the word Tatau). So, Maōri, Polynesians, and many other Pacific Islanders like Samoans practiced the tattoo, and still today, as a way to represent their belonging to the culture, which is very far from the historical representation of the criminal the tattoo can have among the developed world.
I come from a place called Polynesia, which is a collection of little islands and atolls, as large as Europe in scale, spread in the Pacific Ocean. This place had been colonized by several Europeans, around the 18th century, but there are many books that were written since and some behaviors still persist. And it’s good, very good.
In fact, there was no such thing as body-shaming, and when the first Europeans came there, they were mainly shocked by how free the population in Tahiti was. They were so shocked by the sexual freedom in there that they wanted to make forbidden the traditional dance that we fortunately continue pridefully today. And we have no problems teaching 5yo children to dance “as sexy” (because it is not sexual!) as this beautiful girl right there:
Although we are in the 21st century, now, when I grew up on one of those savage atolls (by savage I mean isolated and natural), I was mostly naked, but I can still see some little kids playing naked in the most isolated parts of Polynesia. Some women still live topless and the traditional dance even encourage this behavior, this lifestyle, if I can say. Also, men are free to wear whatever length of hair they want. Really, it’s even part of the culture. Longer your hair are, for a man, closer he is to his culture, Polynesian (women here love to free their long hair!).
Oh, and, something that most of the developed world had apparently a hard time to accept: feminized men. Guess what? The persons who tend to act like women while being born with male genitals are part of the society, here. They’re even considered as a whole, with their specific name, and they are well appreciated amongst women’s activities. This approval is not exclusive to Polynesia though, it happens in other places in South-Asia, like the Philippines, or in some places in South-America as well, like Brazil.
Sexuality is… clearly taken differently than many other countries, if I can say. Polynesians have a history of respect towards the nature of things and especially the Body. Its nature. Our statues still have phallic representations or our men still dance half naked (where it’s funny to see how Europeans (this happened again last week!) react to our uninhibited dances).
By the way, for those who don’t know, the word Tattoo comes from the Tahitian language (Tattoo comes from the word Tatau). So, Maōri, Polynesians, and many other Pacific Islanders like Samoans practiced the tattoo, and still today, as a way to represent their belonging to the culture, which is very far from the historical representation of the criminal the tattoo can have among the developed world.
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#3
Iceland here:
If it’s 10degrees or hotter outside [50 degrees Fahrenheit, for Americans] we will go out in bikinis and sunbathe.
Almost every family owns at least one summer cabin that is frequently visited.
We say ‘good morning’ or ‘good evening’ to everyone we pass on the street, depending on the time of day.
We will often have long discussions (*hem* arguments) of what type of snow is snowing at the moment.
The first real day of summer was three days ago and almost everyone took a break from work to go and enjoy it (it was around 14 degrees or something).
It snows from August to June.
All the houses are built like fortresses so they can withstand the frequent earthquakes.
We await the next volcanic eruption with excitement.
Most of us watch football religiously.
Dried fish is a delicacy.
We loudly announce when we go to the toilet and ask if we have permission to do so.
Going on dates is a formal and a rare experience, not standard at all.
Blind dates is something that doesn’t happen.
In swimming pools we wash without clothes with everyone else of the same gender, no stalls.
We drink a lot of milk —it goes with everything.
We leave our babies outside in their prams -of cafes, our homes, in the garden, in our unlocked cars.
We love sauces; we probably have hundreds of different types, also ice cream shops normally have about six different sauces.
We will have barbecues in any weather.
We drink lots of alcohol: beer, wine, you name it.
It’s never cold inside our houses, ever.
We party until way after midnight —if you are camping and want to sleep, don’t camp next to Icelanders.
Believing in elves and trolls is normal and we have tons of stories that we’ve been told about them since we were young.
We have 13 Santa Clauses.
We have a Christmas Cat that, if you don’t get new clothes for christmas, will come and eat you (particularly children).
The christmas cat is owned by a pair of trolls called Grýla and Leppalúði. they are the Santa Clauses’ parents, who are also trolls.
Grýla kidnaps, cooks and eats misbehaving children.
We have a day dedicates to eating these delicious balls of air.
The water quality is 500% and so when we visit other countries we are dying because the water tastes so bad there.
We are taught from a young age that we should never ever ever step on the moss and if you do then u deserve to burn in hell (ok maybe not but that’s the idea).
Everyone hates Justin Bieber for that music video he did. (+We had to close down the park a part of it was shot in because the tourists were tearing up the moss.)
In winter we all wear the thickest coats you’ll see while still trying to stay fashionable and we all look giant.
Conjugation is a thing so a noun has 16 different variations of itself.
Tourism is the top industry of Iceland.
Ice cream is enjoyed whenever; in a snow storm or on a rare hot day; doesn’t matter.
If it’s 10degrees or hotter outside [50 degrees Fahrenheit, for Americans] we will go out in bikinis and sunbathe.
Almost every family owns at least one summer cabin that is frequently visited.
We say ‘good morning’ or ‘good evening’ to everyone we pass on the street, depending on the time of day.
We will often have long discussions (*hem* arguments) of what type of snow is snowing at the moment.
The first real day of summer was three days ago and almost everyone took a break from work to go and enjoy it (it was around 14 degrees or something).
It snows from August to June.
All the houses are built like fortresses so they can withstand the frequent earthquakes.
We await the next volcanic eruption with excitement.
Most of us watch football religiously.
Dried fish is a delicacy.
We loudly announce when we go to the toilet and ask if we have permission to do so.
Going on dates is a formal and a rare experience, not standard at all.
Blind dates is something that doesn’t happen.
In swimming pools we wash without clothes with everyone else of the same gender, no stalls.
We drink a lot of milk —it goes with everything.
We leave our babies outside in their prams -of cafes, our homes, in the garden, in our unlocked cars.
We love sauces; we probably have hundreds of different types, also ice cream shops normally have about six different sauces.
We will have barbecues in any weather.
We drink lots of alcohol: beer, wine, you name it.
It’s never cold inside our houses, ever.
We party until way after midnight —if you are camping and want to sleep, don’t camp next to Icelanders.
Believing in elves and trolls is normal and we have tons of stories that we’ve been told about them since we were young.
We have 13 Santa Clauses.
We have a Christmas Cat that, if you don’t get new clothes for christmas, will come and eat you (particularly children).
The christmas cat is owned by a pair of trolls called Grýla and Leppalúði. they are the Santa Clauses’ parents, who are also trolls.
Grýla kidnaps, cooks and eats misbehaving children.
We have a day dedicates to eating these delicious balls of air.
The water quality is 500% and so when we visit other countries we are dying because the water tastes so bad there.
We are taught from a young age that we should never ever ever step on the moss and if you do then u deserve to burn in hell (ok maybe not but that’s the idea).
Everyone hates Justin Bieber for that music video he did. (+We had to close down the park a part of it was shot in because the tourists were tearing up the moss.)
In winter we all wear the thickest coats you’ll see while still trying to stay fashionable and we all look giant.
Conjugation is a thing so a noun has 16 different variations of itself.
Tourism is the top industry of Iceland.
Ice cream is enjoyed whenever; in a snow storm or on a rare hot day; doesn’t matter.
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#4
Among thousands of Indian families, young girls are either prohibited, prevented or at least discouraged by their parents from even talking to or socially interacting with boys. Then one fine day, (or rather night) she is expected to go to bed with a perfect stranger. This was normal in our country for centuries, but today, things are changing. —
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#5
Normally we think of poverty as correlated to hunger and being skinny. In America, because unhealthy food is so cheap, poverty is actually strongly correlated to obesity. Obesity isn't uncommon in other classes either. The obesity epidemic is seen as a scourge of prosperity. It’s really, really, easy to get fat here if you aren't disciplined.
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#6
My country is Ukraine, and even though it is located in the center of Europe(geographically), we have lots of customs similar to the middle east, I will describe something what is common in my city, Lviv and in the west of Ukraine.
We have lots of phrases, which actually have different meaning. F.e. if guests are in the house, and you want them to leave, just suggest them a coffee of tea (that means that celebration come to the end), BUT when guests are leaving we usually play the game “oh, you are leaving so soon, stay for some longer time”.
We always invite someone for coffee, and that doesn't means the you will drink coffee. Basically that is invitation to meet up. Also it works as invitation for a date. A girl would not agree to meet up for a drink, but will happily go for coffee, even if they will drink beer.
We complain a lot about our country/city/village, but still love it to the moon and back.
We do big weddings to show off among relatives. For the same reason we repair the apartments with the best furniture.
We never swear near to older relatives, and it is not good to do something against parents, so first of all we need to prove that we are right, receive approval and only than we an act.
If lady goes to wedding, or any other family celebrations, with her boyfriend (or a guy with girlfriend) that means that their wedding is coming soon.
We play a game of the good family, on the celebrations, even if that is not true.
We cook too much food for different holidays, And I mean it TOO Much (Below is standard Ukrainian celebration) Probably that is related to big famine (Holodomor in 1932-1933)
Since you are 16, your relatives will ask you, when will you get married. If your are older than 25, they will pray for you to get married and have children :D
There are a lot of beautiful girls (I know that beauty is different for everyone, but still), girls always make up, and dress up beautifully before leaving the house, even if they go to the shop. And we used to wear high heels, we can dance all night long on the high heels and stay gorgeous.
We never drink alcohol without food, if someone does - he is alcohol addicted.
We still sing national songs, dance national dances and wear national clothes (embroider shirts) for holidays.
If I go on with the list, it will be endless :) Hope you found out something new from my writing.
We have lots of phrases, which actually have different meaning. F.e. if guests are in the house, and you want them to leave, just suggest them a coffee of tea (that means that celebration come to the end), BUT when guests are leaving we usually play the game “oh, you are leaving so soon, stay for some longer time”.
We always invite someone for coffee, and that doesn't means the you will drink coffee. Basically that is invitation to meet up. Also it works as invitation for a date. A girl would not agree to meet up for a drink, but will happily go for coffee, even if they will drink beer.
We complain a lot about our country/city/village, but still love it to the moon and back.
We do big weddings to show off among relatives. For the same reason we repair the apartments with the best furniture.
We never swear near to older relatives, and it is not good to do something against parents, so first of all we need to prove that we are right, receive approval and only than we an act.
If lady goes to wedding, or any other family celebrations, with her boyfriend (or a guy with girlfriend) that means that their wedding is coming soon.
We play a game of the good family, on the celebrations, even if that is not true.
We cook too much food for different holidays, And I mean it TOO Much (Below is standard Ukrainian celebration) Probably that is related to big famine (Holodomor in 1932-1933)
Since you are 16, your relatives will ask you, when will you get married. If your are older than 25, they will pray for you to get married and have children :D
There are a lot of beautiful girls (I know that beauty is different for everyone, but still), girls always make up, and dress up beautifully before leaving the house, even if they go to the shop. And we used to wear high heels, we can dance all night long on the high heels and stay gorgeous.
We never drink alcohol without food, if someone does - he is alcohol addicted.
We still sing national songs, dance national dances and wear national clothes (embroider shirts) for holidays.
If I go on with the list, it will be endless :) Hope you found out something new from my writing.
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#7
Men holding hands / placing your hand over someone’s shoulder! In India, it is common to see men hold hands. These are seen as gestures of affection, care and friendship. However, in North America and Canada , these gestures are “gay”. They mean you’re in love with “him”… Talk about a confusing world, eh?
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#8
Let’s say you got invited to a Mongolian herder’s family. You arrive and meet the hosts and see a sheep outside. You play with it, take pictures and go inside the ger. While inside, the hosts prepare milk tea and some dry curds. After a while you go outside and see this: The cute sheep that was tied to outside the ger was your lunch. It was killed in your honor and you are about to eat it…. I have seen many times the shocked expression on the faces of the foreigners when they see that….
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#9
Greece here!!
Being Greek is like harboring a very powerful virus. Once you get it, it’s yours forever and it inhabits all you do. When my family first saw “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” when it came out in theaters, no one laughed. Every so often, in the dark of the theater, my grandmother would reach across the back of the seats and smack my father before he had the chance to laugh at whatever was happening on-screen. It was funny, but not uproariously so because it’s mostly all true. If you’re Greek, you know that it’s all that matters. And you also know the following.
1. You’re skinny. At least you are when Yiayia (grandma) hasn’t seen you in approx. 7 days. Forty minutes into being at her house, once you’ve eaten homemade bread, spanakopita, cookies, ice cream, potatoes, etc., maybe you’re not so skinny since the last time she saw you.
2. You’re fat. Much more of a certainty than number one. “You look like you’ve put on a little weight… have you put on weight? Are you still doing the exercise? Oh popo…” or if you’re lucky, “Your father looks like he’s gained weight. Don’t you think he’s gained some weight? Tsk tsk. He needs to quit eating so much.”
3. If you’re not married, you might as well be dead. This seems harsh, but I actually feel like I am being pretty gentle. The disappointment in my grandmother’s face every time she remembers/knows/inquires as to the fact that my am 26 years old brother is not married, well, it never lessens. She is very good at looking like she feels a new hurt all over.
4. Your Yiayia/Papou (grandma/grandpa) is already dead, even if they’re alive. “Yiayia, I love your dress,” is a grave mistake. It’s answered, without a beat, with “Oh, you can have it when I die!”. Grandma's often knit and make many, MANY embroided table clothes, actual clothes ..etc and all that is considered your “preka" which is basically homemade stuff you'll get once you get married or your grandma or mom dies and then you'll pass it on to your children and they to theirs.
5. Your significant other is dead to your family if they don’t go to church. First question, right off the bat every time I have ever started dating anyone is “Does he go to church? Does his family go to church?” Don’t even bother saying no.
6. If YOU don’t go to church, oh my god. See #4. “I pray for you every day, koukla (dear). Who’s going to pray for you when I die??”
7. If you don’t want to have children, see #4. There is no excuse that will satisfy Yiayia. Oh, you just got a full professorship? You’re a doctor? Don’t care. Make the babies!
8. You need to know how to cook. The entire Greek arsenal cookbook. And cook it well. Men need to know how to cook the meat, and women need to know how to cook essentially everything else. How will you survive if you don’t?
9. You need to know all (and I mean ALL) of your Greek relatives. Including your third cousins who still live in Greece. Go see them! Before they die!
10. Your name only counts if it’s a saint’s name. My cousin's first name is Lauren, but not to anyone on my Greek side of the family. My great-grandmother refused to even pronounce the name Lauren. Her name, in all holy rights, is Elizabeth. My sister is Maria. My father is John (Yianni), my grandmother is Katherine (Katarina), on and on. If Jesus wouldn’t call you it, it’s not your name!
11. Real Easter is not everyone else’s ‘Easter.’ Greek Easter is almost always on a different Sunday than normal Easter, and god help us if these American schools don’t recognize it. My cousin once got a test postponed for her entire science class because the professor asked if anyone was Orthodox, making a joke. My cousin is Orthodox. Test postponed.
12. Easter eggs only get dyed red. Because Jesus said so!
13. If you get the quarter in the Vasilopita (a pie we eat at New year's Eve) you’re golden. But chances are, you won’t. However I get it almost every year and I still carry that Seran-wrapped quarter around in my wallet cause it is considered to bring good luck.
14. If you don’t say ‘Christos Anesti’ first thing as your head pops up off the pillow on Greek Easter morning, you’re in deep shit.
15. You don’t revere the actual Greeks who live in Greece right now. As Yiayia will readily yell at you, “What have the Greeks done in 2000 years?!”
16. Italians and Jewish people are your kindred spirits. Who else can yell so loud, eat so much, and scold so fiercely? No one. But don’t tell Yiayia. She thinks we are special.
17. You grew up thinking everyone toasted at holidays saying “Skinnyasses". “Stin igia mas” is Greek for “cheers”.
18. People who don’t like feta (Greek cheese) are too weird for words.
19. No matter what Yiayia is lecturing you about, she is 100% right and you are 100% wrong.
20. There is no set measuring system in Greek cooking. It’s a handful of this and a dash of that. But it better come out perfectly or you are shaming your Greek ancestors!
21. You will eat a huge breakfast at 10:30 AM and better be ready for the holiday meal at 12:30pm. Koukla (dear), you need to eat. Eat!
22. You don’t want any dessert? Here, have some baklava.
23. There is no pleasing Yiayia. There’s an old joke about a Greek son whose mother gets him two ties for Christmas. He comes down dressed for Christmas mass wearing one of the ties, and the Greek mother says “What’s the matter, you didn’t like the other tie?” (The original joke is actually about a Jewish mother, but don’t tell Yiayia.)
24. You are never hungry. Even if you want to be.
25. You are never alone. Even if you want to be.
26. You are never without guilt. You think Catholic guilt is a thing? That is some pansy stuff compared to Greek guilt.
27. Catholics think Orthodox are Catholics, too. Orthodox don’t think Catholics are Catholic.
28. As you age, you get Greeker and Greeker. For better or worse. Before you know it, you’ll be that Yiayia.
29. When you set out on a road trip, you say “ ke ipanayia mazi mas”. You basically ask for the blessing of Holy Mary so that your trip will be safe. It's kinda like “Lord be with us”.
30. You see people make the sign of the cross and in your head, you hear yourself saying, “You’re doing it wrong!” Those damn Greeks.
Being Greek is like harboring a very powerful virus. Once you get it, it’s yours forever and it inhabits all you do. When my family first saw “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” when it came out in theaters, no one laughed. Every so often, in the dark of the theater, my grandmother would reach across the back of the seats and smack my father before he had the chance to laugh at whatever was happening on-screen. It was funny, but not uproariously so because it’s mostly all true. If you’re Greek, you know that it’s all that matters. And you also know the following.
1. You’re skinny. At least you are when Yiayia (grandma) hasn’t seen you in approx. 7 days. Forty minutes into being at her house, once you’ve eaten homemade bread, spanakopita, cookies, ice cream, potatoes, etc., maybe you’re not so skinny since the last time she saw you.
2. You’re fat. Much more of a certainty than number one. “You look like you’ve put on a little weight… have you put on weight? Are you still doing the exercise? Oh popo…” or if you’re lucky, “Your father looks like he’s gained weight. Don’t you think he’s gained some weight? Tsk tsk. He needs to quit eating so much.”
3. If you’re not married, you might as well be dead. This seems harsh, but I actually feel like I am being pretty gentle. The disappointment in my grandmother’s face every time she remembers/knows/inquires as to the fact that my am 26 years old brother is not married, well, it never lessens. She is very good at looking like she feels a new hurt all over.
4. Your Yiayia/Papou (grandma/grandpa) is already dead, even if they’re alive. “Yiayia, I love your dress,” is a grave mistake. It’s answered, without a beat, with “Oh, you can have it when I die!”. Grandma's often knit and make many, MANY embroided table clothes, actual clothes ..etc and all that is considered your “preka" which is basically homemade stuff you'll get once you get married or your grandma or mom dies and then you'll pass it on to your children and they to theirs.
5. Your significant other is dead to your family if they don’t go to church. First question, right off the bat every time I have ever started dating anyone is “Does he go to church? Does his family go to church?” Don’t even bother saying no.
6. If YOU don’t go to church, oh my god. See #4. “I pray for you every day, koukla (dear). Who’s going to pray for you when I die??”
7. If you don’t want to have children, see #4. There is no excuse that will satisfy Yiayia. Oh, you just got a full professorship? You’re a doctor? Don’t care. Make the babies!
8. You need to know how to cook. The entire Greek arsenal cookbook. And cook it well. Men need to know how to cook the meat, and women need to know how to cook essentially everything else. How will you survive if you don’t?
9. You need to know all (and I mean ALL) of your Greek relatives. Including your third cousins who still live in Greece. Go see them! Before they die!
10. Your name only counts if it’s a saint’s name. My cousin's first name is Lauren, but not to anyone on my Greek side of the family. My great-grandmother refused to even pronounce the name Lauren. Her name, in all holy rights, is Elizabeth. My sister is Maria. My father is John (Yianni), my grandmother is Katherine (Katarina), on and on. If Jesus wouldn’t call you it, it’s not your name!
11. Real Easter is not everyone else’s ‘Easter.’ Greek Easter is almost always on a different Sunday than normal Easter, and god help us if these American schools don’t recognize it. My cousin once got a test postponed for her entire science class because the professor asked if anyone was Orthodox, making a joke. My cousin is Orthodox. Test postponed.
12. Easter eggs only get dyed red. Because Jesus said so!
13. If you get the quarter in the Vasilopita (a pie we eat at New year's Eve) you’re golden. But chances are, you won’t. However I get it almost every year and I still carry that Seran-wrapped quarter around in my wallet cause it is considered to bring good luck.
14. If you don’t say ‘Christos Anesti’ first thing as your head pops up off the pillow on Greek Easter morning, you’re in deep shit.
15. You don’t revere the actual Greeks who live in Greece right now. As Yiayia will readily yell at you, “What have the Greeks done in 2000 years?!”
16. Italians and Jewish people are your kindred spirits. Who else can yell so loud, eat so much, and scold so fiercely? No one. But don’t tell Yiayia. She thinks we are special.
17. You grew up thinking everyone toasted at holidays saying “Skinnyasses". “Stin igia mas” is Greek for “cheers”.
18. People who don’t like feta (Greek cheese) are too weird for words.
19. No matter what Yiayia is lecturing you about, she is 100% right and you are 100% wrong.
20. There is no set measuring system in Greek cooking. It’s a handful of this and a dash of that. But it better come out perfectly or you are shaming your Greek ancestors!
21. You will eat a huge breakfast at 10:30 AM and better be ready for the holiday meal at 12:30pm. Koukla (dear), you need to eat. Eat!
22. You don’t want any dessert? Here, have some baklava.
23. There is no pleasing Yiayia. There’s an old joke about a Greek son whose mother gets him two ties for Christmas. He comes down dressed for Christmas mass wearing one of the ties, and the Greek mother says “What’s the matter, you didn’t like the other tie?” (The original joke is actually about a Jewish mother, but don’t tell Yiayia.)
24. You are never hungry. Even if you want to be.
25. You are never alone. Even if you want to be.
26. You are never without guilt. You think Catholic guilt is a thing? That is some pansy stuff compared to Greek guilt.
27. Catholics think Orthodox are Catholics, too. Orthodox don’t think Catholics are Catholic.
28. As you age, you get Greeker and Greeker. For better or worse. Before you know it, you’ll be that Yiayia.
29. When you set out on a road trip, you say “ ke ipanayia mazi mas”. You basically ask for the blessing of Holy Mary so that your trip will be safe. It's kinda like “Lord be with us”.
30. You see people make the sign of the cross and in your head, you hear yourself saying, “You’re doing it wrong!” Those damn Greeks.
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#10
In the UK:
Someone walks into me - I apologise.
If someone asks me to do something, I do it and then thank them.
I ask “How are you?”, I don’t want an answer, I want them to say “How are you?” and then I won’t answer either, I’ll just ask “how are you?”
Anything terrible in life (eg death, divorce, sacking) will be dealt with by making a cup of tea.
In a foreign country when I order tea and someone says - what tea? I have no idea what they mean…I want tea.
I once broke a rib on an event, working. Didn’t go to hospital until the next day, didn’t want to cause a fuss.
I have never looked a stranger directly in the eye.
Brown sauce - not what you think is brown sauce but actual brown sauce.
Single glazing, in, what is, let’s face it, very often a cold country.
My mum once wrote a letter to the milkman asking if we could reduce our order - it was 1000 words long.
I’m incredibly proud of our free healthcare system (despite being from Europe, where many countries have a free healthcare system).
Obsessed with ‘Indian’ food, except when in India, where the food is nothing like what I consider Indian food.
Would actually die for the Queen, she doesn’t think that much about me.
That’s all I can think of, off the top of my head.
Someone walks into me - I apologise.
If someone asks me to do something, I do it and then thank them.
I ask “How are you?”, I don’t want an answer, I want them to say “How are you?” and then I won’t answer either, I’ll just ask “how are you?”
Anything terrible in life (eg death, divorce, sacking) will be dealt with by making a cup of tea.
In a foreign country when I order tea and someone says - what tea? I have no idea what they mean…I want tea.
I once broke a rib on an event, working. Didn’t go to hospital until the next day, didn’t want to cause a fuss.
I have never looked a stranger directly in the eye.
Brown sauce - not what you think is brown sauce but actual brown sauce.
Single glazing, in, what is, let’s face it, very often a cold country.
My mum once wrote a letter to the milkman asking if we could reduce our order - it was 1000 words long.
I’m incredibly proud of our free healthcare system (despite being from Europe, where many countries have a free healthcare system).
Obsessed with ‘Indian’ food, except when in India, where the food is nothing like what I consider Indian food.
Would actually die for the Queen, she doesn’t think that much about me.
That’s all I can think of, off the top of my head.
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48points
#11
Denmark here.
When celebrating a birthday, we will carelessly decorate everything around us with our national flag ("Dannebrog"). The food, the cake, the gifts, the house, the dog. Everything. My last birthday, I was woken in bed by my daughter, singing, laughing and waving the national flag in my face. I loved it.
Ask any Dane. Flags equals birthday.
Birthday cakes decorated with our national flag, "Dannebrog".
I have no clue why we do it. It's not a nationalist thing. People across the political spectrum, from far far right to far far left, will do it. I guess we just like the colors, maybe.
But it gets weirder. In other contexts, the presence of even a single national flag will cause heated arguments. A few years back, politicians of our national parliament ("Folketinget") went nuts about the sudden presence of a (albeit pretty large) national flag inside the parliament chamber. A blatant symbol of nationalism and an outrage, some parties argued. Other parties thought it looked pretty neat. A large national conservative party even adopted the flag as their logo, much to the dismay of others.
But during birthdays, each and every Dane agrees that flags are a thing. Preferably a lot of them.
It didn't really occur to me until my daughter came of age and we started watching all sorts of non-danish TV-shows and cartoons together. Naturally, sometimes a character in one of these shows/movies/whatever will celebrate his or her birthday. "But daddy, where are all the flags?" she asked me. And she was absolutely right. I saw all sorts of decorations, silly hats, beautiful cakes, colorful flowers, balloons galore and candles - but no flags. Even in content from our immediate neighboring countries, Sweden, Norway and Germany. "They forgot the flags, love," I told her. "But dad, you can't celebrate a birthday without flags!" she almost yelled.
Well, not if you're from Denmark you can't.
When celebrating a birthday, we will carelessly decorate everything around us with our national flag ("Dannebrog"). The food, the cake, the gifts, the house, the dog. Everything. My last birthday, I was woken in bed by my daughter, singing, laughing and waving the national flag in my face. I loved it.
Ask any Dane. Flags equals birthday.
Birthday cakes decorated with our national flag, "Dannebrog".
I have no clue why we do it. It's not a nationalist thing. People across the political spectrum, from far far right to far far left, will do it. I guess we just like the colors, maybe.
But it gets weirder. In other contexts, the presence of even a single national flag will cause heated arguments. A few years back, politicians of our national parliament ("Folketinget") went nuts about the sudden presence of a (albeit pretty large) national flag inside the parliament chamber. A blatant symbol of nationalism and an outrage, some parties argued. Other parties thought it looked pretty neat. A large national conservative party even adopted the flag as their logo, much to the dismay of others.
But during birthdays, each and every Dane agrees that flags are a thing. Preferably a lot of them.
It didn't really occur to me until my daughter came of age and we started watching all sorts of non-danish TV-shows and cartoons together. Naturally, sometimes a character in one of these shows/movies/whatever will celebrate his or her birthday. "But daddy, where are all the flags?" she asked me. And she was absolutely right. I saw all sorts of decorations, silly hats, beautiful cakes, colorful flowers, balloons galore and candles - but no flags. Even in content from our immediate neighboring countries, Sweden, Norway and Germany. "They forgot the flags, love," I told her. "But dad, you can't celebrate a birthday without flags!" she almost yelled.
Well, not if you're from Denmark you can't.
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41points
#12
In Canada, specifically Ontario and I think Quebec, we buy our milk in bags. Funny thing is, I'm 32 and never knew this was an odd way of storing milk until just a couple years ago. Makes sense why I always saw big plastic jugs in the movies. Ha!
40points
#13
As an American, something normal here, but (almost) nowhere else has to be The Imperial System.
So, while the majority of the civilized world is using simple, universal measurements based off of 10, us Americans (and Liberians) just use inches, feet, yards, and other things that don’t make sense and are outdated.
When watching the weather forecast, we Americans see the 32 Degrees Fahrenheit and are like “Yay snow!”
All while the Canadians up North (Or East for Alaska) will say, “32 is such a random number. What’s wrong with 0 Degrees Celsius? Well, Americans.”
There was a time that a $327 million space program designed to orbit Mars was destroyed just because the scientists were using because its altitude-control system used imperial units but its navigation software used metric units.
I feel bad for when people from other countries have to convert the Metric system to a far less optimal measurement system just because us Americans can be too stubborn to round to 10.
If the British invented the Imperial system, but later switched to the Metric system - why can’t we (Americans) do so too?
It’s just one of the myriad reasons other countries think we’re weird.
So, while the majority of the civilized world is using simple, universal measurements based off of 10, us Americans (and Liberians) just use inches, feet, yards, and other things that don’t make sense and are outdated.
When watching the weather forecast, we Americans see the 32 Degrees Fahrenheit and are like “Yay snow!”
All while the Canadians up North (Or East for Alaska) will say, “32 is such a random number. What’s wrong with 0 Degrees Celsius? Well, Americans.”
There was a time that a $327 million space program designed to orbit Mars was destroyed just because the scientists were using because its altitude-control system used imperial units but its navigation software used metric units.
I feel bad for when people from other countries have to convert the Metric system to a far less optimal measurement system just because us Americans can be too stubborn to round to 10.
If the British invented the Imperial system, but later switched to the Metric system - why can’t we (Americans) do so too?
It’s just one of the myriad reasons other countries think we’re weird.
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37points
#14
There are a lot of things that are quite unique in Nepal, but this one is particularly interesting.
You can see living goddess in Nepal called Kumari.
There is a tradition of worshiping young girls who are yet to reach the puberty as the incarnation of Hindu goddess Durga who is considered as the indication of divine female energy. Young girls from, Kathmandu’s Newar community, Shakya or Bajracharya are chosen as Kumari by a committee. It is a privilege to have your daughter contest in this selection process.
Before chosen as Kumari the girls are tested for 32 very specific physical attributes, including “eyelashes like a cow,” “thighs like a deer,” “Mona Lisa Like Smile” and a “voice as clear as a duck.” She is also put through a secret test for signs of fearlessness and serenity.
Kumari lives with her father and mother, who left their jobs to become her full-time caretakers. The Kumari is not allowed to leave her place of residence except for some Holy festivals and her feet are never supposed to touch ground. She is carried everywhere, even inside her home.
Kumari are not Kumaris for life. Once they hit puberty they are forced to return to life as a normal human being.
You can see living goddess in Nepal called Kumari.
There is a tradition of worshiping young girls who are yet to reach the puberty as the incarnation of Hindu goddess Durga who is considered as the indication of divine female energy. Young girls from, Kathmandu’s Newar community, Shakya or Bajracharya are chosen as Kumari by a committee. It is a privilege to have your daughter contest in this selection process.
Before chosen as Kumari the girls are tested for 32 very specific physical attributes, including “eyelashes like a cow,” “thighs like a deer,” “Mona Lisa Like Smile” and a “voice as clear as a duck.” She is also put through a secret test for signs of fearlessness and serenity.
Kumari lives with her father and mother, who left their jobs to become her full-time caretakers. The Kumari is not allowed to leave her place of residence except for some Holy festivals and her feet are never supposed to touch ground. She is carried everywhere, even inside her home.
Kumari are not Kumaris for life. Once they hit puberty they are forced to return to life as a normal human being.
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#15
It may not be my country but I’ve lived in Montreux, Switzerland for 7 years now and there’s a few curious things to me that are seemingly normal here.
Here are 5 weird things I see in Switzerland as an immigrant…
Snitching - on literally anything!
There is a culture of snitching in Switzerland. It goes along with little laws that have been made up to make society more agreeable. For example, my teacher left her car parked for 2 days once in the same spot, so someone called the police because it was suspicious. It was a relatively new, unscratched car as well! It’s completely socially acceptable to snitch on others if you see something wrong - no guilt attached, and no hard feelings afterwards.
Saying you’re going to the beach, but actually going to the lake.
In Montreux we don’t have a sea - Switzerland is a landlocked county. However, we do have a gorgeous lake called Lake Geneva, and the area is called (half jokingly!) the Swiss riviera. In the summer when it’s hot, you’ll often get invited to go to the beach. There are little parks and rocky beaches along the lake. It’s weird to me coming from a little Island where we have many actual beaches, but completely normal here!
Paying CHF15 (equivalent of 15 dollars) for a cocktail.
Switzerland is notoriously expensive. It’s pretty normal to pay upwards of 6 CHF for beer, and 15 CHF for a cocktail. This is regular where I am. The funny thing is, even people who have relatively low incomes seem to have no issue paying up - it’s just accepted. You want that? This is the price.
Drinking water straight out of any random fountain you find on the street.
In most areas I’ve been in Switzerland, there are fountains, both for decoration and also for drinking purposes. It’s completely normal to stop by and stick your head under the tap to take a drink. These fountains not only taste amazing (by taste I mean they’re fresh and cold year round and genuinely feel nice to drink from), but are also checked every 2 weeks for ph levels etc. I’ve seen fountains closed when they’re deemed even slightly off before. You can more or less guarantee what you’re drinking is as pure as it gets.
Taking the train everywhere!
Don’t get me wrong, people do own cars and they do drive in Switzerland. However, often the train is the best option. Instead of driving 2 hours to another city (Lausanne to Zurich for example), why not take the equivalent train route? The trains in Switzerland run to the minute, and are surprisingly inexpensive when compared with other countries. My train pass takes me from where I live above Montreux to school in Lausanne for about 1500 chf per year, about 400 chf of which we recollect from ‘communal incentives’ (kind of like a tax rebate but from your local ‘commune’, which is a sort of town council - rebates also offered on purchases like electric bikes and a number of other things). To put it in perspective the total amount I would spend annually on this journey would be closer to 6000 if I did not have the pass, so it’s a bloody good deal if you ask me! (The distance between where I live and lausanne is about 30km, and costs about 7.80 chf per journey. The trains here are the cheaper, more efficient option in most cases, and you can always rely on local public transport when you arrive at your destination.
Hope this has been an interesting read! If you have any questions or have visited Switzerland yourself, I’d love to hear your opinions! Do get in touch…
Here are 5 weird things I see in Switzerland as an immigrant…
Snitching - on literally anything!
There is a culture of snitching in Switzerland. It goes along with little laws that have been made up to make society more agreeable. For example, my teacher left her car parked for 2 days once in the same spot, so someone called the police because it was suspicious. It was a relatively new, unscratched car as well! It’s completely socially acceptable to snitch on others if you see something wrong - no guilt attached, and no hard feelings afterwards.
Saying you’re going to the beach, but actually going to the lake.
In Montreux we don’t have a sea - Switzerland is a landlocked county. However, we do have a gorgeous lake called Lake Geneva, and the area is called (half jokingly!) the Swiss riviera. In the summer when it’s hot, you’ll often get invited to go to the beach. There are little parks and rocky beaches along the lake. It’s weird to me coming from a little Island where we have many actual beaches, but completely normal here!
Paying CHF15 (equivalent of 15 dollars) for a cocktail.
Switzerland is notoriously expensive. It’s pretty normal to pay upwards of 6 CHF for beer, and 15 CHF for a cocktail. This is regular where I am. The funny thing is, even people who have relatively low incomes seem to have no issue paying up - it’s just accepted. You want that? This is the price.
Drinking water straight out of any random fountain you find on the street.
In most areas I’ve been in Switzerland, there are fountains, both for decoration and also for drinking purposes. It’s completely normal to stop by and stick your head under the tap to take a drink. These fountains not only taste amazing (by taste I mean they’re fresh and cold year round and genuinely feel nice to drink from), but are also checked every 2 weeks for ph levels etc. I’ve seen fountains closed when they’re deemed even slightly off before. You can more or less guarantee what you’re drinking is as pure as it gets.
Taking the train everywhere!
Don’t get me wrong, people do own cars and they do drive in Switzerland. However, often the train is the best option. Instead of driving 2 hours to another city (Lausanne to Zurich for example), why not take the equivalent train route? The trains in Switzerland run to the minute, and are surprisingly inexpensive when compared with other countries. My train pass takes me from where I live above Montreux to school in Lausanne for about 1500 chf per year, about 400 chf of which we recollect from ‘communal incentives’ (kind of like a tax rebate but from your local ‘commune’, which is a sort of town council - rebates also offered on purchases like electric bikes and a number of other things). To put it in perspective the total amount I would spend annually on this journey would be closer to 6000 if I did not have the pass, so it’s a bloody good deal if you ask me! (The distance between where I live and lausanne is about 30km, and costs about 7.80 chf per journey. The trains here are the cheaper, more efficient option in most cases, and you can always rely on local public transport when you arrive at your destination.
Hope this has been an interesting read! If you have any questions or have visited Switzerland yourself, I’d love to hear your opinions! Do get in touch…
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35points
#16
Dowry
Fraudulent Saints
Making temples for celebrities
Cow in the middle of the road
Confusion between patriotism & nationalism
A flood in one part and a famine in another
Student suicides
Trains delayed by more than its running time
An angry anchor on prime time
Free internet but no free education
Mass production of engineers
Taking offence for no reason at all
Lack of political know-how
Capturing of poll booths
Arranged Marriages
Invisible law system for the rich
Vehicles on footpath
Elections 365*7 in some part of the country
Brain Drain
Misinterpretation of Feminism
Roadies
Politicians who never took sex education
Reservation system based on caste
Honour k**ling
Biased media
The list is long but at least we didn’t donate money to a girl so that she could become the youngest billionaire. We believe in corruption only!
Fraudulent Saints
Making temples for celebrities
Cow in the middle of the road
Confusion between patriotism & nationalism
A flood in one part and a famine in another
Student suicides
Trains delayed by more than its running time
An angry anchor on prime time
Free internet but no free education
Mass production of engineers
Taking offence for no reason at all
Lack of political know-how
Capturing of poll booths
Arranged Marriages
Invisible law system for the rich
Vehicles on footpath
Elections 365*7 in some part of the country
Brain Drain
Misinterpretation of Feminism
Roadies
Politicians who never took sex education
Reservation system based on caste
Honour k**ling
Biased media
The list is long but at least we didn’t donate money to a girl so that she could become the youngest billionaire. We believe in corruption only!
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33points
#17
Pakistani here.
1- Same sex people can hold hands in public. It is a sign of friendship among boys or girls.
2- If you go to your relative's house and the door is open then you don't bother to knock it.
3- Doctors don't write the formula of the medicine on their description rather they write pharmaceutical company name. In addition doctors inject injection on hips without removing the clothes.
4- Shooting in air by using light and heavy weapons like AK47 on weddings and other occasions.
5- Arranged marriages and marriage with first cousins. E.g; when I was 15 years old I came to know that I'm already engaged with my first cousin.
6- People like to touch and to be touched. Touching your shoulder while talking is considered as a warm relationship.
7- You can't leave your parents. You're supposed to stay with them until their last day on earth. Leaving your parent's house is usually frowned upon.
Some myths which are deeply rooted in Pakistani society are
1- If a black cat cut your way a bad thing is about to happen same is true for breaking of mirror.
2- If the first customer leaves the shop without buying anything it is considered bad luck. So the shopkeeper will reduce the price if you're the first customer.
3- Don't wear black suit in thunderstorms or get hit by lightning.
4- Ghosts are attracted by the people who use perfumes.
5- If you walk over a growing child who's lying flat on the earth his growth will stop.
6- It is widely believed that One drop of Semen is equivalent in energy to 100 drops of blood.
Alright guys Thanks for taking your time to read my answer.
1- Same sex people can hold hands in public. It is a sign of friendship among boys or girls.
2- If you go to your relative's house and the door is open then you don't bother to knock it.
3- Doctors don't write the formula of the medicine on their description rather they write pharmaceutical company name. In addition doctors inject injection on hips without removing the clothes.
4- Shooting in air by using light and heavy weapons like AK47 on weddings and other occasions.
5- Arranged marriages and marriage with first cousins. E.g; when I was 15 years old I came to know that I'm already engaged with my first cousin.
6- People like to touch and to be touched. Touching your shoulder while talking is considered as a warm relationship.
7- You can't leave your parents. You're supposed to stay with them until their last day on earth. Leaving your parent's house is usually frowned upon.
Some myths which are deeply rooted in Pakistani society are
1- If a black cat cut your way a bad thing is about to happen same is true for breaking of mirror.
2- If the first customer leaves the shop without buying anything it is considered bad luck. So the shopkeeper will reduce the price if you're the first customer.
3- Don't wear black suit in thunderstorms or get hit by lightning.
4- Ghosts are attracted by the people who use perfumes.
5- If you walk over a growing child who's lying flat on the earth his growth will stop.
6- It is widely believed that One drop of Semen is equivalent in energy to 100 drops of blood.
Alright guys Thanks for taking your time to read my answer.
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32points
#18
Nigeria is a great country with over 500 tribes and languages.
There are so many things we do that would be considered weird by other countries.
Let me give you just 3 main norms in Nigeria that are weird in other countries.
1. EATING WITH OUR HANDS.
In Nigerian we love to eat out indigenous foods with our hands.
It may seem weird in many countries but we enjoy it here.
2. HAWKING
In Nigeria hawking is a norm and its now part of our lives.
We do buy things on the bus in traffic from hawkers and they really help because you can't stay in traffic for an hour with all the heat and smoke without wanting water.
3. YOU HAVE TO UNDERGO ALL THREE TYPES MARRIAGES BEFORE YOU GO HOME WITH YOUR WIFE.
Before you go home with your wife you have to undergo these three types of marriages before going home with your wife in nigeria:
TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE:
This is a must in Nigeria, without seeing the parents and doing all necessary things in the village of the bride YOU CAN'T GET MARRIED TO A NIGERIAN LADY, The most important aspect of it is the "PAYING OF BRIDE PRICE",
COURT WEDDING:
You have to get your marriage certificate from the court so this one is a must in Nigeria too.
You have to make your marriage legal (Recognised by the Government)
WHITE WEDDING:
Due to how Religious we are in Nigeria we always make sure every couple gets married in the church or mosque.
Now we also after the religious rites have been performed and completed, we move into the second aspect of the white wedding
THE RECEPTION.
This is where we eat and dance and celebrate because after this last set of marriage the Groom can now take the bride home.
All these Norms makes NIGERIA unique and special despite all political difficulties and challenges.
There are so many things we do that would be considered weird by other countries.
Let me give you just 3 main norms in Nigeria that are weird in other countries.
1. EATING WITH OUR HANDS.
In Nigerian we love to eat out indigenous foods with our hands.
It may seem weird in many countries but we enjoy it here.
2. HAWKING
In Nigeria hawking is a norm and its now part of our lives.
We do buy things on the bus in traffic from hawkers and they really help because you can't stay in traffic for an hour with all the heat and smoke without wanting water.
3. YOU HAVE TO UNDERGO ALL THREE TYPES MARRIAGES BEFORE YOU GO HOME WITH YOUR WIFE.
Before you go home with your wife you have to undergo these three types of marriages before going home with your wife in nigeria:
TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE:
This is a must in Nigeria, without seeing the parents and doing all necessary things in the village of the bride YOU CAN'T GET MARRIED TO A NIGERIAN LADY, The most important aspect of it is the "PAYING OF BRIDE PRICE",
COURT WEDDING:
You have to get your marriage certificate from the court so this one is a must in Nigeria too.
You have to make your marriage legal (Recognised by the Government)
WHITE WEDDING:
Due to how Religious we are in Nigeria we always make sure every couple gets married in the church or mosque.
Now we also after the religious rites have been performed and completed, we move into the second aspect of the white wedding
THE RECEPTION.
This is where we eat and dance and celebrate because after this last set of marriage the Groom can now take the bride home.
All these Norms makes NIGERIA unique and special despite all political difficulties and challenges.
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#19
As an Iranian, I think there are many laws and traditions in my country that sounds unbelievable to the rest of the world:
Compulsory Hijab: The first thing you notice when you enter Iran is every female has her hair covered. The coverage can be done with a scarf, shawl, or chador. Unlike other Muslim countries, Burka not common in Iran. If you take off your headscarf in public/wear revealing clothes, you might get arrested by the morality police. This law seems unfair to Iranian women as much as it seems to the rest of the world, but they just can't do anything about it, except being fashionable even with the restrictions. There are other laws that take away their freedom even more, like not allowing them to sing solo, or enter the stadiums.
Nose jobs: Tehran is called the capital of rhinoplasty, and every person living in Tehran knows at least one person in family or friends who has done it.
Kallé Paché: A traditional Iranian food wich is made by boiling the head (kallé) and legs (Paché) of a sheep. It smells and looks disgusting but it is actually very delicious!
Relationship and marriage laws: families are strict when it comes to relationship. They expect girls to keep their virginity before marriage. The groom's family promise to dedicate an amount of money as “mehria” to the bride so that she has a financial support in case of a divorce. Another thing that sounds wierd is the “marriage loan” , which is given to just married couples to help them with buying a house or with the ceremony.
Iran has many other traditions and laws that are in common with other Islamic countries. However, It also has cool traditional clothes, foods and arts which are not weird but beautiful.
I think Iran is the only country which media has focused on its differences and Islamic laws this much. In fact, the most weird thing about Iran to the world is that when they visit Iran, they realize that Iran is not as weird as they thought it is.
Compulsory Hijab: The first thing you notice when you enter Iran is every female has her hair covered. The coverage can be done with a scarf, shawl, or chador. Unlike other Muslim countries, Burka not common in Iran. If you take off your headscarf in public/wear revealing clothes, you might get arrested by the morality police. This law seems unfair to Iranian women as much as it seems to the rest of the world, but they just can't do anything about it, except being fashionable even with the restrictions. There are other laws that take away their freedom even more, like not allowing them to sing solo, or enter the stadiums.
Nose jobs: Tehran is called the capital of rhinoplasty, and every person living in Tehran knows at least one person in family or friends who has done it.
Kallé Paché: A traditional Iranian food wich is made by boiling the head (kallé) and legs (Paché) of a sheep. It smells and looks disgusting but it is actually very delicious!
Relationship and marriage laws: families are strict when it comes to relationship. They expect girls to keep their virginity before marriage. The groom's family promise to dedicate an amount of money as “mehria” to the bride so that she has a financial support in case of a divorce. Another thing that sounds wierd is the “marriage loan” , which is given to just married couples to help them with buying a house or with the ceremony.
Iran has many other traditions and laws that are in common with other Islamic countries. However, It also has cool traditional clothes, foods and arts which are not weird but beautiful.
I think Iran is the only country which media has focused on its differences and Islamic laws this much. In fact, the most weird thing about Iran to the world is that when they visit Iran, they realize that Iran is not as weird as they thought it is.
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In Uzbekistan:
1. It is normal to lift your hand and any car becomes a taxi.
In fact, most of the people prefer this. Because $1 can get you a 10–20 km ride.
2. I think we eat too much bread.
People eat bread with anything. You name it. Rice with bread. Tea with bread. Dumplings with bread. Bread with bread. As a child I used to eat bread with coke ( like you do Oreos with milk). I quit eating bread but my family still buys 5 loaves of bread a day.
3. If it is too hot outside and you want to cool down. Drink hot tea.
It's a tradition, if there is no tea on the table, then none will enjoy their food. Morning - Drink Tea, Afternoon - Drink Tea, You met your friend? Drink Tea, You have a headache? Drink Tea, You want to drink cold stuff? Drink Leftover Tea. Basically, the Uzbek body has more tea than blood. Indians need chilli(or spices), Uzbeks need tea. Oh I almost forgot, some old women gift tea packs when they visit someone.
4. You need to rent limos for your wedding.
A bus too, if you want to impress. If you can't afford, then take a loan. One car should cost you around $100. Your salary? Maybe $200–300. But hey, you get married once (maybe twice, the third time you don't need these), you and your wife can repay the debts after the wedding.
5. You want to get married but you're shy to tell your parents to find a girl for you? No, problemo. We have the perfect solution.
We still have the culture of arrange marriage. Suppose, I am not in a relationship and want to get married through an arrange marriage. Then I will put the carrot in my father's shoe, this will mean that it's time for his son to get married. Or “yo father, I need a wife, please tell mom to find one”.
This was a common thing in the past because people couldn't open up to their parents(controlling parents or dictator parents) as much as we can today.
6. Guys carry purse-like-wallets.
If you dont have one of this, you're not the cool guy. I guess I will never be :(
7. 90+ percent singers lip sync in their concert shows. Even their banners have this disclaimer: Fonogramma Orqali Ijro Etiladi.
It means: The singer will lip sync throughout the concert. Maybe once in a while they may shout “ahha” “ohho”, “everyone together”, “I can't hear you all” but nothing more than that.
I don't understand why people go to such concerts. Is it fun to watch someone lip syncing? Worst part - everyone will be sitting as if they were watching a movie.
1. It is normal to lift your hand and any car becomes a taxi.
In fact, most of the people prefer this. Because $1 can get you a 10–20 km ride.
2. I think we eat too much bread.
People eat bread with anything. You name it. Rice with bread. Tea with bread. Dumplings with bread. Bread with bread. As a child I used to eat bread with coke ( like you do Oreos with milk). I quit eating bread but my family still buys 5 loaves of bread a day.
3. If it is too hot outside and you want to cool down. Drink hot tea.
It's a tradition, if there is no tea on the table, then none will enjoy their food. Morning - Drink Tea, Afternoon - Drink Tea, You met your friend? Drink Tea, You have a headache? Drink Tea, You want to drink cold stuff? Drink Leftover Tea. Basically, the Uzbek body has more tea than blood. Indians need chilli(or spices), Uzbeks need tea. Oh I almost forgot, some old women gift tea packs when they visit someone.
4. You need to rent limos for your wedding.
A bus too, if you want to impress. If you can't afford, then take a loan. One car should cost you around $100. Your salary? Maybe $200–300. But hey, you get married once (maybe twice, the third time you don't need these), you and your wife can repay the debts after the wedding.
5. You want to get married but you're shy to tell your parents to find a girl for you? No, problemo. We have the perfect solution.
We still have the culture of arrange marriage. Suppose, I am not in a relationship and want to get married through an arrange marriage. Then I will put the carrot in my father's shoe, this will mean that it's time for his son to get married. Or “yo father, I need a wife, please tell mom to find one”.
This was a common thing in the past because people couldn't open up to their parents(controlling parents or dictator parents) as much as we can today.
6. Guys carry purse-like-wallets.
If you dont have one of this, you're not the cool guy. I guess I will never be :(
7. 90+ percent singers lip sync in their concert shows. Even their banners have this disclaimer: Fonogramma Orqali Ijro Etiladi.
It means: The singer will lip sync throughout the concert. Maybe once in a while they may shout “ahha” “ohho”, “everyone together”, “I can't hear you all” but nothing more than that.
I don't understand why people go to such concerts. Is it fun to watch someone lip syncing? Worst part - everyone will be sitting as if they were watching a movie.
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