When I was growing up, “I need to talk to you” quite literally meant impending doom. It quite literally meant that I was going to walk into a room, have a screaming battle for 30 minutes, cry, and want to commit suicide, over and over again. I have PTSD from it all.
My boyfriends mom, every other day, comes to us and says “I need to talk to you guys later” and it makes me live in anxiety now. And it’s almost always something trivial that could have been said in passing.
God, please just say it in passing. Don’t say that we need to talk later and then have it be something that you could’ve just said right then in there. I really hate going through the whole day in anxiety like that.
My boyfriends mom, every other day, comes to us and says “I need to talk to you guys later” and it makes me live in anxiety now. And it’s almost always something trivial that could have been said in passing.
God, please just say it in passing. Don’t say that we need to talk later and then have it be something that you could’ve just said right then in there. I really hate going through the whole day in anxiety like that.