It is common sense that you should respect other people’s personal space. Especially when traveling in tight quarters. For example, on an airplane, there is barely any room to maneuver, and it feels like it gets smaller with every trip. While many of your fellow travelers will be polite, a select few are so rude that they should have aircraft dos-and-don'ts booklets made specifically for them.
One plane passenger shared how they sat next to a woman who felt entitled to control the window shade all the way from her aisle seat. However, this behavior was so annoying that the person wasn’t going to let it slide. So, they came up with a plan on how to get back at her.
You’ll find the full story below, as well as our conversation with etiquette educator and founding manager of Etiquette for the Business of Life, Candace Smith, who kindly gave us some pointers on how to share space on a plane politely.
In places lacking personal space, like an airplane, it's important to respect it
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However, this woman didn't get the memo and felt entitled to control the window shade all the way from her aisle seat
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Lack of space often causes discomfort to passengers
It appears that the tight personal space on airplanes isn’t imaginary. Contrary to many beliefs, it’s not the cause of shrinking seat width but rather the tightening of passenger legroom. The technical term for this is seat pitch, which is the distance between rows, which often varies from airline to airline.
It’s estimated that the biggest US domestic carriers, like American, Delta, Southwest, and United, have lost around 2 to 5 inches in legroom since 2011. On cheaper carriers such as Spirit Airlines, it has decreased even more, dropping to 28 inches. Meanwhile, the average distance today is about 31 inches.
By doing this, it allows the companies to accommodate more passengers in airplane cabins and offer an overall cheaper airfare. However, it has resulted in frustration from flyers who endure discomfort from the lack of space. Some have even started questioning safety, as none of the US airlines’ economy seats meet the standards required for safety positions in case of an emergency.
In addition, federal regulations require that all people be safely evacuated in 90 seconds, and cramped seating significantly interferes with this timing. Under pressure from frustrated passengers, Congress instructed the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) to consider adapting seat standards. In response to these directions, the FAA conducted a series of evacuation tests using 755 volunteers in Oklahoma.
Some of the trials used seats with a 28-inch pitch, one of the narrowest in the industry. The results reveal that “evacuations at a narrow seat pitch are safe for virtually all (99%) of the able-bodied population.” The FAA added, “The study results do not consider passenger comfort (or the lack thereof), which impacts a passenger’s sense of well-being during a flight.”
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Passengers should know a few etiquette suggestions to ensure a more pleasant journey
Since the lack of personal space in airplanes doesn't seem to be solved any time soon, passengers should know a few etiquette suggestions to ensure a more pleasant journey and not end up a victim of a petty revenge plan.
Therefore, Bored Panda reached out to etiquette educator Candace Smith, who agreed to share a few pointers on how to behave with neighboring people on a flight. She says that the infamous window shade should be controlled by the person sitting next to it. "Should there be a need or special request, the flight attendant makes the call," she adds.
Meanwhile, the armrests belong to the person who is sitting in the middle seat. Smith tells us, "My own rule is that middle-seat folks have first rights to armrests. Flight attendants are there to assist if there is a problem."
The space in front of your seat is also mostly yours. It becomes shared when the person in front of you decides to recline their seat. Typically, how far back they can go should be negotiated with a quick question asking for permission. Meanwhile, the area under your seat belongs to you as long as your things or carry-on bags don’t push into another person’s space.
When an issue of personal space does occur, Smith notes, "Being respectful and courteous to others is always a number one consideration. Asking yourself, “What’s it like to be on the other side of mom?” can serve you well."
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