My mom allowed my sister and her alcoholic husband to stay with us in our already cramped house with 3 teens and my sister and I bc they got kicked out of HIS parents house for being disrespectful. My mom has brain cancer and it's affected her memory. She cannot make new memories. They would say things like "oh don't worry she won't remember" or "just do it and tell her you told her but she forgot". I don't remember ever being THAT red eyed before. The real kicker was after all of that, my sister's husband did not allow anyone to touch my niece for the first month she was living there even though he hurt her while drunk. I'm still trying to learn to forgive my sister. Don't mistreat my mother, period.