Often times being single can get really boring, lonely and cold. But nothing feels worse than being with someone and still feeling lonely. You only have 2 options and those are to either remain single and feel lonely or have a man lay next to you every night and wake up still feeling alone and empty.
Having a man just for the sake of not being alone is self torture. He can be around you all day and still be absent.
What's the point of being in a relationship with a man who spends no time with you, shows you no love or affection?
Remember the things he did when he first started talking to you? How he would spend countless hrs on the phone, go out on dates, his romantic gestures towards you? Where did it all go? He put forth effort to win you over, now he went MIA and you are left wondering what happened to that man that made you fall in love with him.
What's the point of being in a relationship with a man who spends no time with you, shows you no love or affection?
For any good woman it can be really frustrating to be in a relationship with a man that makes her feel single yet wants her to cater to his needs. It doesn't work that way.
Every woman has her limits, its really difficult to love a man who you have lost respect for let alone cater to his needs when he is neglecting yours.
At the end of the day you can't complain about a situation you keep allowing to continue. Going to bed with a man every night you know doesn't love you is a waste of your time. No woman should ever have to go to bed with tears in her eyes wondering what happened to the man who promised her he was different yet turned out to be the same or worse.
If at any point in the relationship you start to feel emotionally drained from fighting and begging to be loved its time to let it go. You can't live in what was. You have to accept it for what it is. Truth is you shouldn't feel lonely when you have someone who claims they love you. You never signed up to be treated as if you don't deserve time, love and affection. You should never settle for nothing less than a man who appreciates having you in his life and encourages you and your growth as a woman. If the man in your life is falling short of treating you right don't hesitate removing the unnecessary stress from your life. What he won't appreciate another man will.
