Grown men don’t play games, string you along or entertain any other women. You will know when you have found a real man and a true gentleman, because there will be no guessing, no anxiety, and no other competition. He will make sure that you are safe and loved!
If the man you are with makes you question your position in his life more than likely he is stringing you along until the woman he really wants comes along. A lot of the times a man that is stringing you along is a man that is not happy with the relationship but will not cut you out of his life because he enjoys the benefits he gets out of being with you even if he is not happy but its better than being alone. He keeps his options open and steady flirting with other women as if he’s single, specially through fb and instagram or any other social media outlet.
If a man mentions it more than once that he is not happy, but is still around that is dangerous grounds to get cheated on. When a man is not happy he will not put forth any effort to make the relationship work. You can’t love someone into loving you. They either do or they don’t. Never fight for a place in someone’s life. Don’t give someone your all when they are not even giving you half of what you give. Learn to walk away. The longer you stay the more it will hurt!
You are in a relationship to be and feel happy not to feel stressed out or drained. If you a feel insecure about whether he will cheat on you its because he is not doing a good job at making you feel like you are the only woman in his life. No, you are not crazy he is driving you crazy by the stupid sh*t he does. Your job is to love your man, not babysit him! You can’t spend your life trying to guard against what could happen if he’s left alone. The unpopular truth is that a man will always do what he wants to do, and if your love isn’t enough to discipline him, then it’s misplaced on him!
Sometimes we stay in hopes that our love will be enough to get them to love us back and act right, but truth be told we are only fooling ourselves. Because when it comes to love you shouldn’t have to feel like you are forcing someone to love you back, it should come natural. If you find yourself in a relationship that stresses you out find the strength to move on. A man that really wants to be in your life will never have you second guessing, you will be his priority and you will know by the way he treats you. If he treats you as if you are just an option to him, he is stringing you along. Love yourself with the same love you are trying to give, and dismiss anyone who doesn’t come correct.
