You will have to accept the fact that anything you want to achieve in life you will have to work for it. Nothing will just be handed to you. You will have to work for that degree. Work hard to save up money to go on that vacation you been wanting to go to. You know everything takes work. One day you might fall in love with someone who is not meant for you and that will be the most unfortunate and frustrating situations to deal with. How do you work hard at making someone fall in love with you? You don't.
You can't force yourself into someone's heart. You will drive yourself crazy at trying to be the person you think they should fall in love with. Love is free and self sustaining it doesn't need to be forced. The love is either there or it isn't. It's fine to fight for someone that loves you. It's a waste of time to fight for someone to love you. The truth is, none of us are easy to date, deal with, or please all the time. We have our vices, attitudes and a way of doing things that make us who we are. You won't like everything about somebody, it's impossible. This is life, and it isn't about finding the perfect person. It isn't about living some fairy tale. It's about finding someone worth fighting for. That simple. Find someone who has a heart for you and never stop fighting for them.
Don't ever beg someone to love you. There is no use in hopeless pleas of trying to make someone stay. You are too good to chase someone who does not know your worth, and too good to be waiting on someone to acknowledge your value. You deserve unconditional love, you shouldn't have to fight for it. You shouldn't have to prove to someone that you are worth it. I know the hurt behind wanting to make something work so bad that you end up bending over backwards for someone who doesn't appreciate it. If they really wanted you...you wouldn't be feeling like you constantly have to fight for their attention. The hardest thing to do is to accept the fact that some people just aren't worth it no matter how much you love them. If someone is really meant for you they wouldn't make you feel like you are asking for too much. Love, loyalty, and respect are the basics. They shouldn't feel entitled to brownie points for doing what is expected of them. You are worth more than what you choose to settle for. Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be.
