30 Parents Who Are Turning Their Teens Against Them With Their Infuriating Actions

To get an opinion from the other side of the barricades, we contacted Vicki Broadbent, writer, director, broadcaster, and founder of the award-winning family and lifestyle blog Honest Mum.

She has a toddler, tween, and teen of her own, and told Bored Panda, "I think parents, and I'm guilty of this myself, often forget what it's like to be a teenager, especially as our generations grew up in completely different worlds."

Vicki, author of Mumboss (UK) and The Working Mom (the US and Canada) said, "The social media pressures apparent now are huge and most teens would rather stay in and socialize online as opposed to being out in the park or at a disco like I did at their age."

Many share her sentiments. There are big debates about what it's like to be a teenager these days, and technology’s impact is often at the center of these conversations.

For example, among the 69% of U.S. parents of 13-to-17-year-olds who say being a teenager today is harder than it was two decades ago, 41% blame social media, 26% cite technology in general (other than social media), 16% point to additional societal pressures and expectations, and 15% believe it’s due to the world or country changing in a negative way.

"I know I can often be too hard on my teen and tween for being online too much and have to remind myself that the internet is a huge part of their socialization with others, be it playing games or chatting. It's just important to monitor usage to keep them safe," Vicki Broadbent of Honest Mum added.

"Parenting teens can be challenging as you help navigate and support them through hormonal changes, friendship woes and the pressure of exams. It takes empathy and tolerance, rather like raising a toddler! Try not to take teens' rages personally. My greatest advice is to try to access therapy yourself so you can show up as the parent you want to be. By doing the above, you will nurture and grow your bond."

Fortunately, teens are reporting notable improvements in their mental and physical health, happiness, and motivation compared to the pandemic period. Currently, 45% say their relationships with immediate family have become much or somewhat better, while 49% report the same for their closest friendships. Additionally, 45% feel more motivated, 42% describe themselves as happier, and 49% believe their physical health has improved. Meanwhile, 36% note progress in their mental health, reflecting a positive shift in overall well-being.